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When God Says No…

January 24, 2026 /

MaryEllen Montville

“The king said to Nathan the prophet, “See now, I dwell in a house of cedar, but the ark of God dwells in a tent.” And Nathan said to the king, “Go, do all that is in your heart, for the Lord is with you.” –2 Samuel 7:2–3

If you have been a Christian for any length of time, you’ve likely read or heard that King David was known as a man after God’s own heart. For those new to the faith or those who have not read a Bible, this truth can be found in 1 Samuel 13:14. Here, too,  in Acts 13:22, where the Apostle Paul quotes God: “But God removed Saul and replaced him with David, a man about whom God said, ‘I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart. He will do everything I want him to do.”

I want us to focus on the last five words of this Scripture as they are central, the heart really, of this teaching: “I want him to do.” The idea being what God has determined versus our hearts’ plans and desires…

Though David was a man after God’s own heart, he belonged to God. He was God’s. Chosen in Christ before the foundation of the world, as Scripture reminds us, as surely as every other Blood-bought believer. “For He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world to be holy and blameless in His presence. In love He predestined us for adoption as His sons through Jesus Christ, according to the good pleasure of His will.” –Ephesians 1:4

But wait, didn’t King David live and die long before Jesus stepped foot on the earth?

Then how can it be that he was chosen in Christ?

Indeed, David lived roughly 1000 years before Jesus. It had been longer still since Moses, Abraham, and Noah, chosen vessels all, went on to glory, again, long before Jesus’ finished work on the Cross; yet each of them is with Jesus this day.

How can this be?

Faith.

Salvation requires faith.

One must believe God is who He says He is and will do what He says He will do. “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.” –Ephesians 2:8-9

“Without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who approaches Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him. By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in godly fear built an ark to save his family. By faith he condemned the world and became heir of the righteousness that comes by faith.” Hebrews 11:6-7

Each of these men believed God is who He claims to be.

Each trusted in God, His promises, and Person, as King David did, and Christ’s Righteousness was credited to them. “For the Scriptures tell us, ‘Abraham believed God, and God counted him as righteous because of his faith.” “When people work, their wages are not a gift, but something they have earned. But people are counted as righteous, not because of their work, but because of their faith in God who forgives sinners. David also spoke of this when he described the happiness of those who are declared righteous without working for it: “Oh, what joy for those whose disobedience is forgiven, whose sins are put out of sight. Yes, what joy for those whose record the Lord has cleared of sin.” –Romans 4:3-8

Now that we’ve established how David and the others belong to Jesus, how it is every Blood-bought believer belongs to Him, let’s get back to those five Words spoken by God at the beginning of this teaching: “I want him to do.”

David, having had this extraordinary relationship with God, was, above all, God’s own. Meaning, God, not David, determined which doors would open in David’s life, and which doors would not. In 2 Samuel 7, you’ll discover that out of a deep and abiding love for God, David had determined in his own heart that he’d be the one to build God a house—a place of worship, and that the Prophet Nathan sanctioned it as a “good plan,” but it was not God’s plan for David.

Before I go further, beloved, a word of caution:

Use wisdom by taking every “thus says the Lord” spoken over you by any man, prophet, so-called, any intercessor, or beloved brother or sister in Christ, captive, bringing it before the Lord. God alone owns the final Word over your life, and if that Word was from Him, He’ll confirm it; otherwise, spit it out before it causes a bitter root to spring up within you because what was spoken over you has not come to pass.

With this in mind, read and discover how God responded both to His Prophet Nathan and His beloved David for their well-intended yet erroneous ways, listen to what God says about them thinking they were free to do or speak what was in their heart’s to do or say: “Nathan replied to the king, ‘Go ahead and do whatever you have in mind, for the Lord is with you.” But that same night the Lord said to Nathan, “Go and tell my servant David, ‘This is what the Lord has declared: Are you the one to build a house for me to live in?

“‘Furthermore, the Lord declares that he will make a house for you—a dynasty of kings! For when you die and are buried with your ancestors, I will raise up one of your descendants, your own offspring, and I will make his kingdom strong. He is the one who will build a house—a temple—for my name. And I will secure his royal throne forever. I will be his father, and he will be my son. If he sins, I will correct and discipline him with the rod, like any father would do. But my favor will not be taken from him as I took it from Saul, whom I removed from your sight. Your house and your kingdom will continue before me for all time, and your throne will be secure forever.’” So Nathan went back to David and told him everything the Lord had said in this vision.” –2 Samuel 7:3-5;11-17.

Though David loved the Lord and earnestly desired to do nothing more than build God the best, most beautiful home, fit for the God he adored and served with his whole heart and life, the Lord made it plain that it was not what “I want him to do.”

What do you do, child of God, when God says no?

No, to the position, the pulpit you seek, that missionary position, job, marriage, or ministry your heart is set on.

Do you trust that God’s plans are far greater than your own?

Greater still than you could even imagine—eternal in scope and purpose.

My prayer for you, for me, for everyone of God’s own, is that we are not so blinded by the manifest blessings our gracious, merciful, loving God lavishes upon us, that we lose sight of the fact, though Jesus calls us friend, He is no less God! El Elohim, Supreme over all. Creator of our very breath and bones—our whole lives—with all their wants and hopes are subject to Him; Jesus “gets to” direct our dreams of serving and blessing Him and others. I pray we remain humble, pliable vessels worthy of continued use to our Master. Surrendered to the will and shaping of our Sovereign, Majestic King, Jesus, out of love and reverent fear—just as David was.

The works David desired to do were destined for another to accomplish.

I encourage you to read 2 Samuel 7 for yourself. And as you do, pay attention to the importance God places on humility and submission to His will.

Discover there too, the undeserved blessings God poured out on David’s obedience; this servant whose whole heart sought to love, serve, and obey His Lord. And, lastly, trust, beloved, that as you surrender your hopes to God, that dream and desire that’s been bubbling in your belly since you can remember, that God has a far better plan for you than you could ever dream or desire for yourself.

In the midst of your heartache or struggle today, be encouraged.

Take a fresh grip on God’s promise and never let go of it. “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” –Jeremiah 29:11

Do you know Jesus, Who, as Scripture tells us, opens doors no man can close and closes doors no man can open?

If not, won’t you receive His personal promise to you: “All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.” –John 6:37

Tetelestai.

January 10, 2026 /

MaryEllen Montville

“And I give them eternal life, and they will never, ever [by any means] perish; and no one will ever snatch them out of My hand.”—John 10:28

Do you believe this Scripture verse experientially? I mean, do you have personal knowledge of its Truth in the very bones of you?

Christmas is behind us; with it, everything that happened in 2025, the good and not-so-good. 2026 stretches out before us now, God’s “next.” We wonder what lies ahead, beyond this new door. Joy? Relief? Hope? Answers, finally, to our heartfelt, yet unanswered prayers? A new relationship, maybe, a new ministry? A move, or a baby? Marriage?

Will we even live to see the end of this New Year?

Not everyone will. What does 2026 hold for us?

And though I ask myself some of these same questions, of late I’ve felt led to ask this provocative question: “As you walk into 2026, are you truly confident in your relationship with Jesus, or can it be shaken?”

Do you even have a relationship with Him?

And if not, why not?

What’s holding you back?

It’s time!

Ask Jesus to be your Lord and Savior. “If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by openly declaring your faith that you are saved.” –Romans 10:9-10. Ask Jesus to lead you to the Bible-believing Church He’s chosen for you to attend. Get a Bible and start reading it. Ask God to teach you—to open His Word to you. Go after God with all you have in you…

Make Jesus your Everything.

Your beginning, and your end.

Your Lord and Savior.

Let His Blood, shed once for all, holy and acceptable to God the Father, payment in full for the sins of the whole world, cleanse you of your sins. Jesus has cleared your account, friend. His Blood, stamped across your sin debt, paid in full; Tetelestai.

Still, the heartbreaking reality is that some falsely believe they or their loved ones will somehow achieve salvation, see the Father, and attain heaven without ever accepting Jesus as Savior. “For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.” – 1 Corinthians 1:18

What about you? Do you believe Jesus is the only way to the Father?

I ask because it’s a question each must answer in his own heart before his eyes close to this world for the final time; not answering it is your answer.

My last teaching was titled: “He Didn’t Stay In The Manger…”

And how I thank God He didn’t!

I thank Jesus, He left the manger and went to His Cross.

My heart breaks when I think it was my sin that led Him there, but I am thankful beyond all known words for His Sinless, Powerful Blood that washes away my guilt and shame. Jesus opened the Way for me to run back to my Father, to be with Him, today, and for eternity, through His perfect sacrifice.

His sinless Life, freely given in exchange for my sin-filled life.

So, this question of the surety of your confidence in Jesus, that you’re safe and sealed in Him for the day of salvation, is it truly settled in your heart?

Here’s why I ask: Your eternal life depends on your answer.

You’re standing at the threshold of a New Year. A year whose door of new beginnings has cracked open before you, not everyone was given this gift. Just beyond, Light. Some quick glimpse of hope, promise, and uncertainty stretches before you. God is allowing you yet another opportunity to choose life or death today, now.

At the same time, you’ve left behind a year that shook and challenged countless people to their core—maybe you were one of them? Perhaps you witnessed someone you were certain, or certainly hoped, was unshakable, fall away. Maybe it was you who fell away? Are you one who once professed their love, so-called, for Jesus, but walked away? “As God’s partners, we beg you not to accept this marvelous gift of God’s kindness and then ignore it. For God says, “At just the right time, I heard you. On the day of salvation, I helped you.” –2 Corinthians 6:1-2

Have you outright refused to acknowledge Jesus as Lord? Repent, turn around!

As difficult as this is for you to hear, and for me to say, I assure you, sadly, regardless of your outward appearance, church polished or not, you belong to this world. To the old covenant, to those who “can be shaken,” not having been made new, eternal, sealed with the Blood of the new covenant. “For this is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins.” –Matthew 26:28

Paul speaks of such men, of their falling away, when he harkens back to the Words God gave the Prophet Haggai, then, does an about face, pointing them, and us, toward some yet future day: “At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, ‘Yet once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens. This phrase, “Yet once more,” indicates the removal of things that are shaken — that is, things that have been made — in order that the things that cannot be shaken may remain.” –Hebrews 12:26-27

Yet there is hope!

While there is still breath in your lungs, there is hope.

Please, hear me: I  say this in love and with all hope that you will turn back or to, Jesus: unless you repent of your sin, your end is an eternity away from the Light, peace, and safety found only in Jesus’ Presence; as was my own, and so many of my brothers and sisters, until we said yes to Him. 

So I am praying for you that God, in His mercy, might turn back and remember you —remember anyone who sincerely repents—starting with His church. “Change your Life, not just your clothes. Come back to GOD, your God. And here’s why: God is kind and merciful. He takes a deep breath, puts up with a lot. This most patient God, extravagant in love, always ready to cancel catastrophe. Who knows? Maybe he’ll do it now, maybe he’ll turn around and show pity. Maybe, when all’s said and done, there’ll be blessings full and robust for your GOD!” —Joel 213-14 MSG.

In closing, confidence in your salvation is profoundly personal. Because it’s your intimate, exclusive relationship with Jesus, likened to that of a husband and wife.

The “no one can take this away from me” Spirit of God Himself at work in you, anchoring you immovably to Jesus. “Thus by two unchangeable things in which it is impossible for God to lie, we who have fled to take hold of the hope set before us may be strongly encouraged. We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain, where Jesus our forerunner has entered on our behalf. He has become a high priest forever in the order of Melchizedek.” –Hebrews 6:18-20

Dear friend, as you take steps into this New Year, search your heart: be confident of your salvation.

And, if you are His, beloved of God, go all in!

Stake your Life on what you profess to believe.

“Therefore, my dear ones, as you have always obeyed [my suggestions], so now, not only [with the enthusiasm you would show] in my presence but much more because I am absent, work out (cultivate, carry out to the goal, and fully complete) your own salvation with reverence and awe and trembling (self-distrust, with serious caution, tenderness of conscience, watchfulness against temptation, timidly shrinking from whatever might offend God and discredit the name of Christ).” –Philippians 2:12.

This sure knowledge that you belong to Jesus, and are eternally saved, can be the greatest gift you receive in 2026 if you ask for it with all sincerity.

Tetelestai; It Is Finished! Your debt has been paid in full.

I pray you believe this.

“Beloved, do not let this one thing escape your notice: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise as some understand slowness, but is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish but everyone to come to repentance. But the Day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar, the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and its works will be laid bare.” –2 Peter 3:8-10

The New Year of Promise.

January 3, 2026 /

Matthew Botelho

“Oh, clap your hands, all you peoples! Shout to God with the voice of triumph! For the Lord Most High is awesome; He is a great King over all the earth.” –Psalm 47:1-2

After reflecting on everything that happened in 2025, no matter the issue, the truth is that God was in it all. I cannot stop praising Him for the amazing Father He is. When there was any negative thought, God was there. When the doctor’s report came in saying my dad had cancer, and as he went through chemo, God was there. When there was an injury to my ankle with a torn tendon that kept me out of work for 6 months as my amazing wife worked and took care of our family and me, God was there!

Men of God who are reading this, I encourage you to lead your families in holiness and in the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ.

I am reminded in scripture of when Moses led the Israelites through the wilderness, and having no water, they were thirsty. The people started to complain, yet God provided for them. Moses followed God’s instructions, and they were refreshed with fresh water from a rock. Scripture reads: “Behold, I will stand before you there on the rock of Horeb; and you shall strike the rock, and water will come out of it, that the people may drink. “And Moses did so in the sight of the elders of Israel. So he called the name of the place Massah and Meribah, because of the contention of the children of Israel, and because they tempted the Lord, saying, “Is the Lord among us or not?” –Exodus 17:6-7

If you have been walking with the Lord for any length of time, then you’ve likely had a “God was there moment.” A time or times when things looked miserable and bleak, but God! When you and your family felt dry and parched. Moments where you didn’t pray, didn’t seek God because you were, well, plain exhausted.

My brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus, I am here today to remind you that God is in it with you, for 2026. In what? In everything you do! So when He tells you to walk forward, follow Him in faith, knowing that He has your life in His hands. Obedience brings the blessing of God. The prophet Samuel said to Saul after he was disobedient to God, “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, As obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, And to heed than the fat of rams.” –1 Samuel 15:22

Jesus wants you to follow and trust in Him in greater measure than ever before.

He wants to remind you that He will always be there for you.

Praise You Jesus!

In 2 Timothy 2:11-13, Paul writes, “This is a faithful saying: For if we died with Him, We shall also live with Him. If we endure, We shall also reign with Him. If we deny Him, He also will deny us. If we are faithless, He remains faithful; He cannot deny Himself.” Take your faith by the hand with an unyielding grip and run into 2026 knowing that if you serve Jesus, you have a great and Mighty God who will never fail you, even when you fail Him.

Be reminded too, that because you are in Christ, you are commanded to deny the desires of your flesh. Yes, you will get tempted, but that temptation does not have a hold on you. Why? Because God has given you a way out of such temptations.

We, believers in Christ Jesus, need only to cry out, “Jesus, help!” and our Mighty God who saved us will make a way out! Paul writes, “No temptation has overtaken you except such is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with temptation will also make a way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” –1 Corinthians 10:13

Many have been plagued with adultery or porn addiction, men and women.

The book of Proverbs tells us, “Can a man take fire to his blossom and not get burned? Can one walk on hot coals And his feet not be seared? So is he who goes into His neighbor’s wife; Whoever touches her shall not be innocent.” –Proverbs 6:28-29.

Women, you are not exempt from this. Just because it says “man” does not mean you are in the clear. These same temptations come for you as well, and you bear the penalty of sin equally with men. Because no one is exempt, brothers and sisters in Christ, give what has been tempting you, plaguing you this past year, over to Jesus. Why would you want to revisit what Jesus has delivered you from? Remember in Proverbs it says, “As a dog returns to his own vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” –Proverbs 26:11

There is no greater love than the love God has for all His children. Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” –John 15:13

If you belong to Him, Jesus calls you friend, chosen, and heir to the kingdom of God.

In that same chapter of John 15, Jesus says, “No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you. You did not choose Me, but I have chosen you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that fruit should remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you.” –John 15:15-16

Jesus laid His life down for you to restore you to right standing with the Father. This divine exchange, His death in exchange for your new Life in Him, that took place 2000 years ago, has saved you from ever experiencing the pit of hell. The apostle Peter writes, “The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but long-suffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” –2 Peter 3:9

God is a God of love, but He is also holy and righteous, and so sin separates us from Him.

Our sin has separated us from going boldly into His presence. So praise Jesus because He, the innocent, died in our place, the guilty ones; we now have redemption and life eternal, and because of Jesus, life with the Father has been restored to us. As scripture says, “But now having been set free from sin, and having become slaves of God, you have your fruit to holiness, and the end, everlasting life. For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” –Romans 7:22-23

People choose their own final judgement. If Jesus life, death, and resurrection have afforded you such a precious gift as eternal life with Him and the Father, why then would you toss it back at Him like you don’t need it?

This world needs an awakening. The days, hours, and minutes keep ticking past as we grow closer and closer to the glorious day of Christ Jesus’ return! The greatest gift humanity has ever received is the Son of God. So I pray that if you have not said yes to Jesus but have been stirred by God as you read this, you will say yes to Jesus today, right now.

Jesus said, “Repent and believe in the gospel” –Mark 1:15

I pray that as you walk boldly into 2026, you will “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness” – Matthew 6:33.

Seek Jesus in your everyday life.

Walk in obedience, serving others in humility.

Be stirred up and be available.

And welcome, new brother or sister, to this New Year of promise! Amen

New Year’s Eve Blessings!

December 31, 2025 /

From: All Of Us!

Greetings, Sonsofthesea family

On the Eve of this New Year, before you take that first-fruits step into God’s next, have you prayed? Have you asked His Holy Spirit to show you what ought not go with you into the “new thing” He’s doing? What must be left at the altar, far behind you, so that you might have the strength, peace, courage, clean hands, heart, and constancy you will need to face whatever is ahead boldly, fiercely, bravely, with fresh determination?

To help us succeed in doing this, I pray, above all, that God’s Holy Spirit strengthen, uphold, lead, and guide us. And I also encourage you, and all of us, to heed Paul’s instructions, all of them, using them as our tried-and-true guide. “…throw off every encumbrance and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with endurance the race set out for us. Fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

How can we continue to hold out hope for what may feel impossible and daunting, hope that our yet-unanswered prayer, our heartfelt plea, will be answered by God? You know the one. That prayer you’ve been praying for years now for true and lasting change: of heart, habits, thought patterns, or lifestyle choices, for more of God, so much more, and far less of you. “This is what the Lord says to Zerubbabel: It is not by force nor by strength, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies.”

As the days grow darker and the love of many grows cold, we must trust God now more than ever before, beloved, remembering that apart from Him, we can do nothing of eternal value.

Paul also reminds us that, tired as we may be, as weary and worn out as we may feel at times, we’re not there yet; we must press on, beloved! We are still in this spiritual fight, yet we do not fight alone, ever! Remember that the next time you feel as though you’re standing toe to toe, just you and the enemy of your soul.

Remember, the God of Heaven’s Armies fights for you! Jesus stands with you, always! Hold tight to His promise, wrap it tightly around yourself, shelter and strength, whenever you feel weak or afraid: “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will surely help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” and “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you go through the rivers, they will not overwhelm you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be scorched; the flames will not set you ablaze.”

And so you must, we must, take a fresh grip with hands made weak maybe and weary by the challenges we faced and fought throughout 2025 and press forward in the strength Christ affords those who belong to Him, encouraged and determined never to turn back or away, but to fight, taking new ground in this New Year, for the Kingdom of our God: “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize of God’s heavenly calling in Christ Jesus.”

We are linking arms with you in the Spirit, joining our prayers to yours for the coming New Year.

Praying for your strength, courage, boldness, and constancy. For greater levels of humility, submission, surrender, and holiness. We pray, too, that the favor and blessings of God rest heavily upon you and your family.

Above all, we pray if you don’t know Jesus, personally, intimately, as Lord, Savior, Friend, the greatest miracle of all will be yours in 2026—your name will be found written in the Lamb’s book of Life! “Like them, he who overcomes will be dressed in white. And I will never blot out his name from the Book of Life, but I will confess his name before My Father and His angels.”

New Year’s Blessings from everyone here at Sonsofthesea!

We thank you for following us and pray you’ll continue to do so as we follow Jesus into 2026…

He Didn’t Stay In The Manger.

December 27, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.” –Revelation 5:5

In The Chronicles of Narnia, a brief conversation between Mr. Beaver and Susan concerns Aslan. Mr. Beaver states quite matter-of-factly, “Aslan is a lion: the Lion, the great Lion.’ Ooh,’ said Susan. ‘I’d thought he was a man. Is he quite safe? I shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion.’ ‘Safe?’ said Mr. Beaver, ‘Who said anything about safe? ‘Course he isn’t safe. But he’s good. He’s the King, I tell you.”

Like Susan, many today don’t know King Jesus; they’re confused as to who He truly is. A fictional character who traversed the made-up land of Narnia, Susan questioned who Aslan is; she is not unlike those very real people in our so-called real world who still question Jesus.

Now, I don’t mean those like Susan, whose questions were sincere. Those searching for Truth, to know Jesus more intimately, learn more about Him, His character. All who follow Him have done that, and, hopefully, continue to do so.

No, by “questioning” I mean those who flat-out resist Truth.

Those who question anything and everything even remotely related to Jesus. Those whose motives are to call Jesus and anything associated with Him into question that they might disparage, cast a shadow over, or besmirch His holy name. “And no one puts new wine into old wineskins; otherwise the new [fermenting] wine will [expand and] burst the skins and it will be spilled out, and the skins will be ruined. But new wine must be put into fresh wineskins. And no one, after drinking old wine, wishes for new; for he says, ‘The old is fine.’” –Luke 5:37-39

Those who literally shake their fist in His face both hurt my heart and anger me.

That’s my Husband!

Still, I pray God sends someone, uses anything, perhaps even this teaching, to soften their hearts towards Him, that they may, soon and very soon, proclaim Him as their Lord and Savior. “Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.” / On the contrary, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head.” / Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” –Romans 12:19-21

Do they rail against Him because they can’t see past Him as the newborn babe, wrapped up and helpless—a baby like all the other babies they’ve seen in countless manger scenes? “How could such a wee, helpless thing possibly harm or ever save me?” they think.

Some of these same souls point out that Mouhammad was a baby once, as well, as were Buddha and Krishna—and that each of them grew up and claimed to offer the same path to eternal life as Jesus. “They have never harmed me. Maybe one of them will save me. Why not?”

No, blind soul! They cannot! They were counterfeits—all of them—mere men, dead and buried now. There is but One true and living King, the God-man whose miraculous birth we just celebrated, Jesus, the Christ.

He alone is the eternal One.

He alone is the only Way to the Father. “Jesus said to him, “I am the [only] Way [to God] and the [real] Truth and the [real] Life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” –John 14:6

Across the globe, many have heard of Jesus. In fact, some use His name daily and rather loosely, perhaps after stubbing their toe or experiencing a sudden fright. It’s not Mouhammad’s name they’re crying out…

Heartbreaking, really, that so holy a name is used so often in the most unholy of ways.

But I digress…

Even those who act deaf, who deny Jesus’ existence, have heard of Him; God made sure of this. Those who run from Him out of fear, maybe, of letting go of the sins that so easily beset them, are left without excuse. Creation itself testifies of Jesus day after day, His Majesty, Intelligence, Power, of His nature. Even the blind are without excuse. They can hear the wind, sounds made by ocean waves, birds, and a baby’s cry, His creations, all.“For ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse for not knowing God.” –Romans 1:20

Aside from hearing of Jesus, most have heard stories about Him, especially at Christmastime.

Stories of the baby born in a manger to a young virgin girl named Mary.

They’ve heard the story about the angel announcing His birth to the shepherds in a field.

They’ve heard of His star and the three wise men.

Some have even heard the Gospel preached, accounts of Jesus’ miracles, His healings, that He came to earth as God in the flesh, and that He raised a man named Lazarus from the dead. That He, too, was raised from the dead on the third day.

So maybe these same souls who cannot reconcile Jesus within themselves have only heard Jesus’ tiny cry—spiritually speaking. A babe’s voice only, making no demand on their lives, they turn a deaf ear. Still, having heard at all, they are without excuse. Jesus let loose a cry from His untried lungs into the night sky, proclaiming what can never be unheard: “The Savior of the world has been born.” 

And soI pray, somewhere in the depths of those fleshly hearts who deny Him still, Jesus’ cry will not go unheeded. Open their ears, Lord, to hear the roar of the Lion of the Tribe of Judah calling out to them, “I have called you by name, You are Mine!” “But now, this is what the Lord says—he who created you, Jacob, he who formed you, Israel: “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.” –Isaiah 43:1-2

There have always been voices.

Announcing. Proclaiming! Whispering. Rebuking. Judging.

Roaring voices that spoke and speak still, of the failures of God’s people, yet of hope and restoration, too.

Jesus’ voice created our world; our Triune God spoke Words unheard by men over the face of the deep, and life came forth—and it comes forth still. And God will have the final Word, and His Word will not return to Him void. It cannot. “Behold, He is coming with the clouds, and every eye will see Him—even those who pierced Him. And all the tribes of the earth will mourn because of Him. So shall it be! Amen.” –Revelation 1:7

Do you know Jesus? Or, like Susan in Lewis’ story, are you unsure exactly of who Jesus really is to you?

Maybe you wonder, “Is He who He claims to be?

Should you ever read “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe,” you’ll find Susan not only comes to know Aslan for herself, but she serves Him all the days of her life. Spoiler alert: In Lewis’s books, Aslan represents Jesus.

How wise Susan was. How I pray in all your wondering you’ll follow her example, all the days of your life.

There will always be voices, dear friend.

The decision you’re faced with today is one all men have faced since that night in Bethlehem when Jesus let loose a cry from His untried lungs into the night sky, proclaiming what can never be unheard: “The Savior of the world has been born.” 

Do you believe Him?

In Him? Will you heed His voice and follow Him? “But to as many as did receive and welcome Him, He gave the right [the authority, the privilege] to become children of God, that is, to those who believe in (adhere to, trust in, and rely on) His name.” –John 1:2.

Having lived, died, and been resurrected, Jesus will return. But this time, it won’t be as a wee babe. “Behold, He is coming with the clouds, and every eye will see Him, even those who pierced Him; and all the tribes (nations) of the earth will mourn over Him [realizing their sin and guilt, and anticipating the coming wrath]. So it is to be. Amen.” –Revelation 1:7.

Jesus didn’t stay in that manger…

He Didn’t Stay In The Manger…

December 13, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.” –Revelation 5:5

In The Chronicles of Narnia, there is a brief conversation between Mr. Beaver and Susan regarding Aslan. Quite matter-of-factly, Mr. Beaver states, “Aslan is a lion: the Lion, the great Lion.’ Ooh,’ said Susan. ‘I’d thought he was a man. Is he quite safe? I shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion.’

‘Safe?’ said Mr. Beaver, ‘Who said anything about safe? ‘Course he isn’t safe. But he’s good. He’s the King, I tell you.”

Like Susan, many today don’t know King Jesus.

Susan, a fictional character who traversed the made-up land of Narnia and questioned who Aslan was, is not unlike the very real people alive today in our real world, so-called. Those who question who Jesus really is still surprise me. Now, I don’t mean questioning in a sincere, searching-for-Truth way, to know Him or learn more about Him, we’ve all done that. No, I’m talking about those who flat out question anything and everything even remotely related to Jesus, just because it’s Jesus. I know, it shouldn’t bother me, I’ve read the Scriptures, about hearts that will be hardened toward Him, those who will literally shake their fist in His face! It all just hurts my heart. That’s my Husband, they’re belittling!

Is it because they can’t see past Him as a newborn, wrapped up and helpless—a baby like all the other babies they’ve seen in countless manger scenes, no different. “How could such a wee helpless thing possibly save me?” they think.

Some of these same souls point out that Mouhammad was a baby once, too, as were Buddha and Krishna—and each of them grew up and claimed to offer the same path to eternal life as Jesus. “Why does it have to be Jesus?” they think. “Maybe one of them will save me, why not?”

 No, blind soul! They cannot! They were counterfeits—all of them—mere men, all dead and buried now. There is but One True and Living King, Jesus, the Christ. He alone is eternal. He alone is the only Way to the Father. “Jesus said to him, “I am the [only] Way [to God] and the [real] Truth and the [real] Life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” –John 14:6

Many have heard of Jesus, of course. In fact, they’ve used His name rather loosely after stubbing their toe or after experiencing some sudden fright. They don’t cry out, “Oh, Mouhammad!” Heartbreaking, really, that so holy a name as Jesus is so often used in the most unholy of ways. But I digress…

Even those who act deaf, deny Jesus’ existence, run from Him out of fear of letting go of the sins that so easily beset them, have all heard of Jesus. Of this, He’s made sure. Creation testifies to Him, His Majesty, Power, and nature, day after day. “For ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse for not knowing God.” –Romans 1:20

Aside from hearing of Jesus, like Susan, most have heard stories about Him, especially at Christmastime.

Stories of a baby born in a manger to a young virgin girl named Mary. They’ve heard the story about the angel announcing His birth to the shepherds in the field. They’ve heard of the star and the wise men. Some have even heard the Gospel accounts of Jesus’ miracles, His healings, and of Him raising some guy named Lazarus from the dead.

Maybe these same souls who cannot reconcile Jesus within themselves have only heard Jesus’ tiny cry—spiritually speaking. A babe’s voice, making no demand on their lives, unlike the voice of the King we serve, the King who commands us, “Follow Me.”

There was a cry let loose from untried lungs, sending unformed Words out into that night long ago, a proclamation to all who had ears to hear. “The Savior of the world has been born.”  

That same cry echoes around the planet, still.

I pray, somewhere in the depths of their fleshly hearts, His Divine call will not, can not, go unheeded, and ears once able to hear only the sound of a wee babe in a manger will now hear the roar of the Lion of the Tribe of Judah calling out to them, “You are Mine!” “But now, this is what the Lord says—he who created you, Jacob, he who formed you, Israel: “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.” –Isaiah 43:1-2

There have always been voices.

Announcing. Proclaiming! Whispering. Rebuking. Judging. Thundering. Roaring voices that spoke and speak still, of the failures of God’s people, yet of hope and restoration, too.

The world was created by voices; Words spoken over the face of the deep by our Triune God, unheard by men, they roar still. God will have the final Word, and it will not return to Him void. It cannot. “Behold, He is coming with the clouds, and every eye will see Him—even those who pierced Him. And all the tribes of the earth will mourn because of Him. So shall it be! Amen.” –Revelation 1:7

Do you know Jesus? Or, like Susan in C.S. Lewis’ story, have you only heard tell of Him, unsure exactly who He is? Maybe you wonder if He is who He claims to be? Should you ever read his book, “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe”, you’ll find that Susan not only comes to know Aslan (Jesus) for herself, but she serves Him all the days of her life. How wise she was. How I pray in all your wondering you’ll follow Susan’s example, and follow Jesus all the days of your life.

There have and will always be voices, dear friend.

The decision you’re faced with is the same all men have faced since that night in Bethlehem when Jesus’ untried lungs bellowed His unformed Words into the night sky, announcing what can never be unheard: “The Savior of the world has been born.”  

And having lived and died and conquered death and the grave, having resurrected, He’s coming back again. But not as a wee babe this time.

Jesus didn’t stay in the manger…“And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among people by which we must be saved [for God has provided the world no alternative for salvation].” –Acts 4:12

Spirit and Truth.

November 29, 2025 /

Pastor Maria Braga

“But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and Truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. God is Spirit, and those who worship him must worship in Spirit and Truth.” –John 4:23-24

When I first came to Jesus, I was paralyzed with fear in every area of my life. I felt like reading the Bible was just something every believer did, and I had to do it too, or else, but at the same time, I had such joy that I couldn’t wait to get to it daily. I read through those 66 books over and over. I couldn’t wait to finish so I could start over again. I would read the Scriptures whenever I had the chance. I even believed that if I didn’t read enough, God would be upset at me. Reading was a task I had to religiously complete in those days, maybe because of my background. All of this was great, and looking back, I realize that season was fantastic for enriching my knowledge of God’s history, His church history through Jesus and the Holy Spirit, and my spiritual nourishment.

As I grew in Christ and the Holy Spirit, I came to a different understanding and realized that, for that season, I did what I was supposed to do; that was what my lifeline was in that season of my life. I will read my Bible continually till the day my eyes are too old to see, but I read with excitement and faith, not out of fear like I had in those early days. I understand that there may be times when I am unable to read. Still, God is Spirit who lives in me, and He ministers to me not only through the reading of His Word but also through His Holy Spirit. I now have this freedom, a place where I know I can receive from the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit wherever I am. When I seek my God in Word, prayer, worship, and fellowship, it brings my heart to a place of intimacy with God. I understand that my worship of Jesus is not dependent on a specific location or any other human demands, but comes from His word and the depths of my being where His Spirit abides.

Worshipping in Spirit and in Truth is my reality; it’s sincere from the depths of my heart, genuine, and like a river flowing from my depths into the heart of God. This happens when I read, I pray, worship to song, or sit at the feet of Jesus.

Worshipping in Spirit and in Truth draws me closer to my Lord through this intimacy, and my Lord draws closer to me. Oftentimes, when I have no words, my own Spirit within me cries out with groans as it says in Romans 8:26, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.”

Forty years later, I live free and believe God’s Word is a lamp unto my feet. I follow a daily step-by-step plan, along with my prayer life, fellowship, and intimate times with my Abba Father.

Now, when I read God’s Word, worship, pray, or engage in any other Christian activity, my head and my heart are both involved; it feels like my whole being is enthralled in the moment.

Those who worship Him worship in Spirit and in Truth, because He is “The Truth” we are desperate for. We might not see Him in person, but our Spirit knows how magnificent He is, how gentle and caring He is, and how kind He is to us.

Worshipping in Spirit and in Truth must be vital and genuine in our hearts, resting in an accurate perception of who God is to us personally. Spirit and Truth are inseparable in the life of the believer. Truth is associated with emotion, and Truth without emotion results in dead religion and artificial admirers. Equally, emotion without Truth produces empty frenzy, shallow people who don’t take discipline or reverence for God and His commands. This true worship comes from a deep, sound place within us, a deep love and sound doctrine. Our strong affection for our God when we worship in Spirit and in Truth is the bone and marrow of biblical worship.

We must encourage one another in the most holy faith as we move forward, serving the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.

Each minute is a celebration of life. Each Sunday, around the world, we, who make up His Body, gather to host spiritual, family events called “Church.” How wonderful it is to journey from the day we are born-again, through our water baptism, through the baptism of the Holy Spirit, and on to grow through His Word, and fellowship with other saints, celebrating the grace and spiritual life Jesus gave us. We are blessed and highly favored by the One who calls us his children and heirs of His kingdom, forever living in His Kingdom with Him.

Worshipping in Spirit and in Truth is the essence of our connection to Jesus.

We must be intentional in our daily walk and diligently seek this connection with God’s Holy Spirit in the depths of our Spirit!

Father, help me to dive deeper into the waters of your Holy Spirit, teach me your Ways, and create in me a pure heart to seek after intimacy with you, be my strength when I am weak, and my stronghold when I need a hiding place. Deepen my understanding of your depth, and rescue me from the areas I need to recover in Jesus’ name, Amen.

Father, draw near to the one who needs you, the one who is seeking Truth, fill them with your Spirit, that they might be one with you even as you and I are one, I pray, in Jesus’ name.

“For I know the plans and thoughts that I have for you,’ says the Lord, ‘plans for peace and well-being and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call on Me and you will come and pray to Me, and I will hear [your voice] and I will listen to you. Then [with a deep longing] you will seek Me and require Me [as a vital necessity] and [you will] find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.” –Jeremiah 29:11-13

Amen.

Heeding the Shepherds Voice.

November 15, 2025 /

Matthew Botelho

“My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.” –John 10:27

I watched this amazing video of a shepherd giving a tour of his land to some tourists, and in the distance, you could see his sheep grazing. He told the tourists it was time for his sheep to come home and asked one of them to call them in. He told them that his sheep responded to the word “come”. A young woman stepped out and yelled the word “come,” but not one sheep showed up.

The shepherd looked at her with a smile, then asked the gentleman next to her if he would try to call his sheep in. The shepherd told the man to really yell this time, and as the young man stepped up, he called loudly, “COME!!” “Surely, all those sheep must have heard me,” he thought. “I’m certain they’ll come running now.” Yet not one came.

“Why did they not come when we called them?” they asked.

You said to yell “come,” and we both did, “but not one of them came to either of us,” the young man said.

The shepherd answered by smiling, looking towards his flock, and yelling, “Come.”

No sooner did the shepherd call than the first few sheep came, baahing and making happy sheep noises. Then the rest of the flock followed. All in attendance were amazed and excited to see the sheep come to their shepherd. He looks at the crowd of people with a smile and says jokingly, “I guess they know me.”

From an early age, the shepherd is with his sheep.

He tends to them, paying special attention and care to the rejected baby lambs, known as bummer lambs. After a while, these sheep learn their shepherd’s voice, and, when hearing the voice of the one who cares for them, they answer only to his call. Jesus says, “And when he brings out his own sheep, he goes before them; and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice.” –John 10:4

It was so beautiful to see how the sheep responded to their shepherd in that video, how they recognized his voice—the one who protects and cares for them —and how they ran to him when he called them to himself.

This is what Jesus did for all of His lambs: He died so we can live for all eternity with the Good Shepherd.

Jesus said, “Most assuredly, I say to you, I am the door to the sheep. All who ever came before Me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not hear them. I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture.” –John 10:7-9

What I found interesting was that when the first two people tried to call the sheep in but weren’t able to, not one sheep responded. It reminded me of the people who claim that all religions lead to God when Jesus clearly declares, “I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” –John 14:6

The sheep trust the shepherd to bring them to safe places to graze and to keep them out of harm’s way; there are many dangers out in the pastures.

There are wild animals, like wolves, who try —notice I said try —to come and snatch any sheep that has strayed, is alone, exposed. Others, known as thieves, try to steal a few sheep away for themselves. “My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand.” –John 10:29

Jesus warns us to be careful of false teachers and false prophets.

When you are rooted in Christ and know His word, listening only to your Shepherd’s voice, nothing can snatch you out of His hand. Your salvation is secure in Christ Jesus. In Psalm 23, the psalmist writes, “The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in paths of righteousness For His name sake.” –Psalm 23:1-3

Brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus, be careful about what you watch on television and scroll through on social media. With the introduction of AI, many false teachers have been set loose, and deception is running rampant. Jesus said, “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, inwardly are ravenous wolves.” –Matthew 7:15

They may look like shepherds, but when they speak, they only mimic what they’ve heard their father speak: lies and deception. “Why do you not understand what I am saying? It is because you are unable to accept My message. You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out his desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, refusing to uphold the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, because he is a liar and the father of lies.” –John 8:43-44.

The same kind of lies the serpent in the Garden of Eden told Adam and Eve: “You will not surely die.” –Genesis 3:4.

That one lie led to the fall of all mankind.

All those who follow wolves-in-sheep’s-clothing —those who claim their path is the right way —will sadly find out in the end that what they were told, believed, and followed was a lie. There is salvation in none other than Jesus Christ, not Buddha nor Mohammad, or Allah—only Jesus. “And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among people by which we must be saved [for God has provided the world no alternative for salvation].” –Acts 4:12.

Follow the thief, that counterfeiter, and you will remain unsaved, in your sin, because he cannot lead you to only One who can redeem you. Jesus promised that you will live for all eternity with the Father if you follow Him, the Good Shepherd who laid down His life for His sheep. “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life, and have it in all its fullness. I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down His life for the sheep.” –John 10:10-11

Stay in the Word of God, my dear brothers in Christ. Stay close to the Shepherd, stay alert, and by the power of His Spirit at work in you, you’ll be able to distinguish lies from His Truth.

God’s Holy Spirit will expose those who teach lies and deceit. Jesus declared, “However, when He, the Spirit of truth has come, He will guide you into all truth; for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears He will speak; and He will tell you things to come.” –John 16:13

Jesus has sealed all who believe in the same Holy Spirit, He promised us. “In Him, you also, when you heard the word of truth, the good news of your salvation, and [as a result] believed in Him, were stamped with the seal of the promised Holy Spirit [the One promised by Christ] as owned and protected [by God].” –Ephesians 1:13

My dear friends in Christ, I urge you to stay close to your Shepherd. I know I have said this many times in this teaching, but for your sake, I’ll repeat it: stay close to the shepherd.

It’s growing darker, brothers and sisters, and we need to be empowered by God’s Holy Spirit daily. But be encouraged: God is for you, my dear brothers, and as it says in scripture, “If God be for us then who can be against us?” –Romans 8:31

In closing, I’ll say we at Sons of the Sea are praying for each of you. So, to those of you who may be reading this blog for the very first time and want to know more about our Good Shepherd, Jesus, He desires to walk with you and so longs to have a relationship with you. Call on Jesus today and repent of your sins. Receive the free gift of salvation and believe that He is the only Way, the Truth, and the Life. “Truly, truly, I tell you, whoever hears My word and believes Him who sent Me has eternal life and will not come under judgment. Indeed, he has crossed over from death to life.” –John 5:24

Amen.

The Grace To Let Go.

November 8, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

“There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven—A time to be born and a time to die; A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted.” –Ecclesiastes 3:1-2

Seasons are appointed by God, in nature, and in the lives of His children. If you’ve walked through a few of your own, you know seasons change, and that letting go of a season can be a challenge. Painful—at first, laden with goodbyes. Our natural eyes focus on what we’ve been asked to release, move on from. Our fleshly desire is to cling, to remain the same, to foster what’s become comfortable—consciously or not. Initially, we don’t see — maybe can’t see — what’s actually happening. Growth! God tapping into gifts and talents we didn’t even know we possessed.

Gideon can attest.

In Judges 6:11-40, read how God tapped into Gideon’s gifts, how He used them for His glory.

Beloved, as with Gideon, a new season is now upon us. God is tapping into us, desiring that we now produce new or different fruits.

Even the absolute best of seasons end.

Summer must give way to Spring, who steps aside for Fall, who shelters itself from Winter’s frozen grip before each will come around, yet again: “What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun.” –Ecclesiastes 1:9

The question facing us then becomes: will we have the grace to let go?

For me, this season changed suddenly—at least, that’s how it felt. I’ll admit it took me a second to get my bearings and take my feelings of loss, my desire to hang on, and my admitted questioning, before the Lord. The Lord, whom I know, from experience, gives and takes away.

I’ve walked with Him, through the valley of the shadow of death, several times, with both parents, my brother, and my husband. He’s asked me to sell the “treasures” I’ve accumulated and give the money to the church. To leave behind a cushy job, an apartment, and my beloved church family in Waikiki, Hawaii, and then move to the frozen Mainland of Massachusetts. Where, specifically? He didn’t say.

“Go back to Massachusetts.” I had a clue as to where, but that’s it.

I had to trust He’d show me exactly where when I got there. So, I and what I could fit into my two suitcases, a carry-on, and two cardboard boxes boarded the plane by faith.

I share this only to emphasize God’s faithfulness.

To help you and me remain faithful and steadfast when our season shifts again, suddenly, because it will. To encourage us both to be intentional about keeping a very loose grip on anything in this world—our loved ones, ministry, our finances, etc.

We never know when God may ask us to return His gift; we know, or should, that they are never ours, not for keeps. “I came naked from my mother’s womb, and I will be naked when I leave. The LORD gave me what I had, and the LORD has taken it away. Praise the name of the LORD!” –Job 1:21

Lastly, to remind you, it’s solely by God’s Holy Spirit at work in us that we’ll ever accomplish such a feat. “Not by might nor by power but by My Spirit” –Zechariah 4:6.

My true character—that is, the Godly character He has been faithfully, painstakingly cultivating within me over my 18-year walk with Him—was quickly revealed during this most recent “season.”

Truth be told, I’m thankful it was.

I learned a few things about myself—starting with the condition of my heart. Areas that need much more submission, obedience, and surrender.

Still, God, in His mercy, allowed me to see I’ve grown, and am growing, still. Learning just how low my King is willing to bow to maintain a relationship with the likes of me.

Spiritual growth is imperative to our faith walk—if we’re not growing and changing, something’s wrong; we’re likely regressing—or, God forbid, dying. “Any branch in Me that does not bear fruit [that stops bearing] He cuts away (trims off, takes away); and He cleanses and repeatedly prunes every branch that continues to bear fruit, to make it bear more and richer and more excellent fruit.” –John 15:2.

And yes, it is biblical to check ourselves. We’re supposed to. “So then, my dear ones, just as you have always obeyed [my instructions with enthusiasm], not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence, continue to work out your salvation [that is, cultivate it, bring it to full effect, actively pursue spiritual maturity] with awe-inspired fear and trembling [using serious caution and critical self-evaluation to avoid anything that might offend God or discredit the name of Christ].” –Philippians 2:12

Thus far, beloved, this season is definitely putting my growth and maturity in Christ to the test!

Yet, what guides me, no, Who it is that guides me, my Lord, assures me, change is of Him, it’s part of His plan.

He’s preparing me — preparing us, beloved — for His next.

The Holy Spirit is cultivating our environment, perhaps transplanting us, so that we might continue to grow. He’s nurturing our vineyard, pruning, and tilling our soil.

Keeping it agricultural, God is readying us to bear our next “crop.”

Anyone who has experienced this knows that, though necessary for continued growth, being pruned, prepared, and transplanted can be painful—even when “we know that we know God is at work in us. “For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.” –Philippians 2:13

I choose Jesus. To follow Him. Hands down. Again today, and forever, I pray.

This peace I have, to release what He first placed in my hands, and trust Him with this new season: the changes, the yet unexplored territory, the new ground to be taken, the next mountain to be climbed, the valley I will walk through—is happening according to Jesus’ Perfect will for my life and all He’s entrusted to my care. And, though I know moving forward things are going to look and work differently, Peace whispers, “This is the Way, walk in it.”  –Isaiah 30:21

So I follow Him. And I encourage you to do the same, beloved of God.

I’m praying over your new season as if it were my own. If you belong to my Father, we’re family, and I want only God’s perfect will for your life—God knows my heart. And if we’re not yet family, we can be, if you want to be. Ask my Father to be yours, and mean it. He’s waiting for your return with open arms. “So he returned home to his father. And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him.” –Luke 15:20

One day, screens will no longer separate us, and how I long to one day hear you say, “God heard my prayer, and He came, just as He said He would. And though it was painful to let go, because I knew it was of Him, I did!”

Beloved, we must choose to follow God’s path, even when it narrows or becomes difficult to navigate. It’s the only sure Way to thrive in any season. “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” Matthew 7:13-14

Burden Carriers.

November 1, 2025 /

Matthew Botelho

“We then who are strong ought to bear with the scruples of the weak, and not please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, leading to edification.” –Romans 15:1

Ever since I was a kid, I have wanted to help those who were looked down upon—the least of these. I always thought people should be treated the same, with the utmost respect and kindness. Some may disagree or call that naive, but that is my heart. These were the values my parents instilled in my kid sister and me as we were raised. We were taught to address older men as “sir” and women as “ma’am”.

We were also taught to help out our neighbors or play with the new kid on the block.

Yet no one in my family was saved—me included.

Sure, we had some Catholic upbringing and maybe went to church two Sundays out of the month, but it is the morals and values our parents instilled in us that went with us every single day. And now that I am older and truly walking with Jesus, I see how He used their foundation to help propel me to where He is taking me. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.”

I believe God placed specific values in my parents’ hearts to teach my sister and me. As a result, we walk a little more steadily now that we are older. Not perfectly, but we know the difference between right and wrong.

With the ground of my heart now tilled, it was time for the Holy Spirit to lay His foundation.

Jesus teaches us, “Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will like him to a wise man who built his house on the rock; and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.” –Matthew 7:24.

That solid foundation, the Rock, Jesus, is where and in Whom our unshakable faith needs to be planted, my dear brothers and sisters. God has positioned you to be a person who “gets to” share the Gospel of Jesus Christ—to help influence others to give their life to Christ.

As the opening scripture says: “We then who are strong ought to bear the scruples of the weak, and not please ourselves.”

Those whom we get to share the Gospel with are often broken, tired, seeking Truth, just as we were before we came to Christ. They are weakened, burdened by the weight of the world; the Holy Spirit that dwells in you gives you the wisdom and strength to help those in need carry their heavy load.

We are not to exalt ourselves, thinking more highly of ourselves than we ought, because we know the Truth—that Christ is to be exalted, reigning on the Throne of our hearts. Remember what Jesus said?  “Just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.” –Matthew 20:28

Jesus, the Son of God, came to serve.

He did not look to His own needs first; He cared only about doing the will of His Father, by laying down His life so that all humanity might be saved from their sin. He counted the cost and gave His own life for all who would believe in Him.

He paid the ransom for sin, which calls for the shedding of blood, and Jesus willingly shed His Sinless Blood to cover the sins of the whole world. “[In fact] under the Law almost everything is purified by means of blood, and without the shedding of blood there is neither release from sin and its guilt nor the remission of the due and merited punishment for sins.” –Hebrews 9:22.

A Divine exchange took place on His Cross, the Sinless died in place of the sinful.

Jesus hung in the place you and I belong, taking upon Himself all of our sin, shame, and guilt. Even knowing in advance that He would die a horrible death, Jesus did it anyway. Why? For you and me and them. “And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all peoples to Myself” –John 12:32

Jesus did this so that whosoever believes in Him as Lord and Savior will be saved.

In John 3:16-17, the Apostle reminds us of this powerful Truth: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.”

 Jesus’ example of how to love — His unwavering love — ought to be the aim, the pinnacle of our walk with Him; that place we press on to reach by denying ourselves and serving people, especially those in the church. “So then, while we [as individual believers] have the opportunity, let us do good to all people [not only being helpful, but also doing that which promotes their spiritual well-being], and especially [be a blessing] to those of the household of faith (born-again believers).” –Galatians 6:10.

Paul writes to the church in Galatia, “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” –Galatians 6:1-2. So when we see that brother or sister overtaken by sin, we need to come alongside them and speak Truth and Life into them.

We don’t coddle sin; we call it what it is, but we love that brother or sister in need.

Remembering, above all, from what and where Jesus rescued us —and how —we too can fall into temptation and sin if we take our eyes off Jesus.

This is why we need to be accountable to each other and hold each other up when we’re hurting. “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.” –Hebrews 10:23-25

Too many times, people have walked away from the Body, believing, falsely, they can handle life on their own.

I plead with you, brothers and sisters in Christ, to carry each other’s burdens.

And remember, there should be no competition between God’s kids.

No comparing ourselves to each other.

That is a worldly mindset. It has no place in the Kingdom of our God. “Be hospitable to one another without grumbling; As each one received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God “ –1 Peter 4:9-10.

My brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus, we get to do this!

That should bring our hearts joy unspeakable!

How can we even think of competing with each other if our hearts are fixed on serving Jesus and doing what God has called each one of us to do? “Speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, giving thanks always for all things God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another in the fear of God.” –Ephesians 5:19-21

How can you not be excited when sharing the Gospel with someone in need of the Good News! “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms; so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.” –1 Peter 4:10-11.

We have been freely given this gift of grace to share freely, no turning back.

Ask yourself: where would you be today if someone had never shared the Gospel with you?

Today, if you want to know who Jesus is, I invite you to repent of your sins and ask Jesus for His free gift of salvation. “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” –Romans 10:9-10

Today is the day to be filled and made new. Jesus said, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentile and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” –Matthew 11:28-30

Amen.

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