Kendra Santilli



“Teacher, which command in the law is the greatest?”
He said to him, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your
soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and most important command.
The second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the
Prophets depend on these two commands.” –Matthew 22:36-40.


It’s all about love.

We cannot do anything good without the One who, in His very nature, is good Himself. It is far too easy to allow comparison to be our meter of what is good. We compare our shortcomings to those of our fellow man. At least we’re not as bad as the next guy. Or statements like, “I would NEVER…” “I get it, BUT…” We find comfort in knowing we’re one step up from the last person. But we fail to realize that from Almighty God’s standpoint, our failures are indeed “just as bad” as the previous guy’s.

“None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one.” – Romans 3:10-12.

You see, the key to upholding righteousness is seeking God, and it all starts with loving God just simply for the love of God.

How easy it is to love with an agenda. It’s human nature to be all in when there’s something in it for us. It’s wonderful to receive gifts and benefits resulting from our beneficence; however, Jesus demonstrated to us while He walked this earth to love just for love’s sake. His only agenda was to grow the family of God, the Kingdom of God. When He healed people, the only thing in it for Him was that He would make someone whole. How great a love Jesus has for us.

Take a moment to look deep inside and ask yourself if your love has boundaries and motives.

I’m not talking about trust; that’s a conversation for another day. How conditional is your love?

The best way to start growing in Godly love is to love Him purely. “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.” – Deuteronomy 6:5. Jesus confirms the importance of this Old Testament reference in Luke 10:27 when He said, “… do this and you will live.”

I believe that when Jesus said, “You will live,” He meant so much more than just having breath in your lungs. He said, “I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance [to the full, till it overflows].” – John 10:10 (AMP). Life comes from deep within. It’s the essence that brings purpose and meaning to the soul. Jesus was revealing this principle that life starts with the love of God. From there, all else will flow.

The only way to live by the standard set forth by Scripture is to start by loving God purely.

Stop looking for what you can get from God and desire instead to know Him. As you grow in Him, He will take care of you. He knows what you need before you ask and will take care of you. “Don’t be like them, for your Father knows exactly what you need even before you ask him!” –Matthew 6:8.

However, sometimes, it behooves us to evaluate the intentions of our hearts. Do we try to love God because of what we can potentially get from Him? Or do we love him because of who He is? Have you gotten to know Him in such a way that you love His Character? Are you in awe of His Greatness and Splendor? Too many people struggle with abiding by Godly principles because they are caught up in the rules but haven’t yet grasped loving God simply for the love of God.

In today’s text, Jesus tells God’s commands can be summed up this way: Love God and your neighbor.

We can’t live by His commands if we have not love. Think about the people in your life that you love for a moment. You avoid certain cutting comments or offensive actions just because you know the sadness or offence it would cause your loved one. In the same way, do you love God enough not to want to offend His heart? Do you love Him enough to consider that the things you say and do can bring sadness to Him?

When you begin loving God purely, you won’t be able to gossip anymore because you know that offends Him. What spouse do you speak poorly about concerning their bride or groom? Probably no one because that’s highly offensive. Yet people talk about other people who bear the image of God so freely they fail to consider they are offending their Maker, even more so if they are the Bride of Christ—His spouse.

If you love God purely, then being malicious would be unthinkable because you know it doesn’t reflect the love of God, and you know your ulterior motives will offend Him.

The list goes on, but fill in the blank for what may apply to you.

If you desire to follow the ways of Jesus, start by learning to love Him purely.

Get to know Jesus by learning the Bible and finding His attributes there. Then ask Him to help you love your neighbor as yourself and watch as He matures you. He will begin to change how you think, leading you, in turn, to obey His word. “If you love me, you will keep my commands. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever. He is the Spirit of truth.” – John 14:15-17

Meeting Jesus is a cataclysmic encounter with Love Himself.

It’s the most radical love one has and will ever know. Jesus gave us the perfect example of how to live life on this side of heaven, yet the world still vehemently opposes the kind of love found in Him. Instead, it fabricates its own version: a self-gratifying love that doesn’t last beyond this life. Yes, God so loved the world He gave us His only Son, but He also desires that humanity align with His purpose for creation, which in part is to love Him and be loved by Him. “For God so [greatly] loved and dearly prized the world, that He [even] gave His [One and] only begotten Son, so that whoever believes and trusts in Him [as Savior] shall not perish, but have eternal life.” –John 3:16.

If you don’t know Jesus, I invite you to open your heart to Him today. Let Him teach you to love God with all your heart, and let Him lead you in righteousness. “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.” – Revelation 3:20.