Matthew Botelho
“We then who are strong ought to bear with the scruples of the weak, and not please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, leading to edification.” –Romans 15:1
Ever since I was a kid, I have wanted to help those who were looked down upon—the least of these. I always thought people should be treated the same, with the utmost respect and kindness. Some may disagree or call that naive, but that is my heart. These were the values my parents instilled in my kid sister and me as we were raised. We were taught to address older men as “sir” and women as “ma’am”.
We were also taught to help out our neighbors or play with the new kid on the block.
Yet no one in my family was saved—me included.
Sure, we had some Catholic upbringing and maybe went to church two Sundays out of the month, but it is the morals and values our parents instilled in us that went with us every single day. And now that I am older and truly walking with Jesus, I see how He used their foundation to help propel me to where He is taking me. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.”
I believe God placed specific values in my parents’ hearts to teach my sister and me. As a result, we walk a little more steadily now that we are older. Not perfectly, but we know the difference between right and wrong.
With the ground of my heart now tilled, it was time for the Holy Spirit to lay His foundation.
Jesus teaches us, “Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will like him to a wise man who built his house on the rock; and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.” –Matthew 7:24.
That solid foundation, the Rock, Jesus, is where and in Whom our unshakable faith needs to be planted, my dear brothers and sisters. God has positioned you to be a person who “gets to” share the Gospel of Jesus Christ—to help influence others to give their life to Christ.
As the opening scripture says: “We then who are strong ought to bear the scruples of the weak, and not please ourselves.”
Those whom we get to share the Gospel with are often broken, tired, seeking Truth, just as we were before we came to Christ. They are weakened, burdened by the weight of the world; the Holy Spirit that dwells in you gives you the wisdom and strength to help those in need carry their heavy load.
We are not to exalt ourselves, thinking more highly of ourselves than we ought, because we know the Truth—that Christ is to be exalted, reigning on the Throne of our hearts. Remember what Jesus said? “Just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.” –Matthew 20:28
Jesus, the Son of God, came to serve.
He did not look to His own needs first; He cared only about doing the will of His Father, by laying down His life so that all humanity might be saved from their sin. He counted the cost and gave His own life for all who would believe in Him.
He paid the ransom for sin, which calls for the shedding of blood, and Jesus willingly shed His Sinless Blood to cover the sins of the whole world. “[In fact] under the Law almost everything is purified by means of blood, and without the shedding of blood there is neither release from sin and its guilt nor the remission of the due and merited punishment for sins.” –Hebrews 9:22.
A Divine exchange took place on His Cross, the Sinless died in place of the sinful.
Jesus hung in the place you and I belong, taking upon Himself all of our sin, shame, and guilt. Even knowing in advance that He would die a horrible death, Jesus did it anyway. Why? For you and me and them. “And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all peoples to Myself” –John 12:32
Jesus did this so that whosoever believes in Him as Lord and Savior will be saved.
In John 3:16-17, the Apostle reminds us of this powerful Truth: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.”
Jesus’ example of how to love — His unwavering love — ought to be the aim, the pinnacle of our walk with Him; that place we press on to reach by denying ourselves and serving people, especially those in the church. “So then, while we [as individual believers] have the opportunity, let us do good to all people [not only being helpful, but also doing that which promotes their spiritual well-being], and especially [be a blessing] to those of the household of faith (born-again believers).” –Galatians 6:10.
Paul writes to the church in Galatia, “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” –Galatians 6:1-2. So when we see that brother or sister overtaken by sin, we need to come alongside them and speak Truth and Life into them.
We don’t coddle sin; we call it what it is, but we love that brother or sister in need.
Remembering, above all, from what and where Jesus rescued us —and how —we too can fall into temptation and sin if we take our eyes off Jesus.
This is why we need to be accountable to each other and hold each other up when we’re hurting. “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.” –Hebrews 10:23-25
Too many times, people have walked away from the Body, believing, falsely, they can handle life on their own.
I plead with you, brothers and sisters in Christ, to carry each other’s burdens.
And remember, there should be no competition between God’s kids.
No comparing ourselves to each other.
That is a worldly mindset. It has no place in the Kingdom of our God. “Be hospitable to one another without grumbling; As each one received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God “ –1 Peter 4:9-10.
My brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus, we get to do this!
That should bring our hearts joy unspeakable!
How can we even think of competing with each other if our hearts are fixed on serving Jesus and doing what God has called each one of us to do? “Speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, giving thanks always for all things God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another in the fear of God.” –Ephesians 5:19-21
How can you not be excited when sharing the Gospel with someone in need of the Good News! “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms; so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.” –1 Peter 4:10-11.
We have been freely given this gift of grace to share freely, no turning back.
Ask yourself: where would you be today if someone had never shared the Gospel with you?
Today, if you want to know who Jesus is, I invite you to repent of your sins and ask Jesus for His free gift of salvation. “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” –Romans 10:9-10
Today is the day to be filled and made new. Jesus said, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentile and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” –Matthew 11:28-30
Amen.
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