"Come follow me and I will make you fishers of men." Matthew 4:19

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Same Oil, Different Jar.

Maria Braga

“Six days before the Passover celebration began, Jesus arrived in Bethany, the home of Lazarus—the man he had raised from the dead. A dinner was prepared in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, and Lazarus was among those who ate with him. Then Mary took a twelve-ounce jar of expensive perfume made from essence of nard, and she anointed Jesus’ feet with it, wiping his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance. But Judas Iscariot, the disciple who would soon betray him, said, “That perfume was worth a year’s wages. It should have been sold and the money given to the poor.” Not that he cared for the poor—he was a thief, and since he was in charge of the disciples’ money, he often stole some for himself. Jesus replied, “Leave her alone. She did this in preparation for my burial. You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have me.” –John 12:1-8

Jesus had performed this amazing miracle of raising Lazarus from the dead; now Lazarus sits down to dinner with Jesus. His two sisters, Mary and Martha, are also present. Martha is busy serving, as she always is, while her sister, Mary, anoints Jesus’ feet with an extremely expensive perfume. Martha always strives to be the best, while Mary gives her best. This story is one of worship and inspiration…

Mary flows with the moment, careful never to miss an opportunity to be with her Jesus.

In biblical times, when a young woman reached marriageable age, families who could afford it would purchase an alabaster box and fill it with expensive, precious oil to be used on her wedding night, the young woman would demonstrate her devotion to her husband by breaking the alabaster box and pouring out the precious oil on his feet, as a sign of honor, purity, and her total commitment to him.

Whether male or female, we all have an alabaster box filled with precious oil. It is the oil of our suffering, produced by the crushing we endure in life. We ought to value and protect our oil. Sadly, too often, we break open our alabaster box way too soon, pouring it at the feet of someone or something without God’s direction.

God’s plan for something so precious is that we never waste our oil senselessly, breaking our jar open before one undeserving of it, what it cost us, then try to put it back together with gorilla glue.

Our oil is extremely valuable and necessary.

The oil from our alabaster boxes is to be poured at Jesus’ feet, the Lover of our souls, not some stranger’s feet. Your alabaster box carries your essence; it tells the story of who you are, your trials and victories.

God knew and deeply valued Mary’s heart; Mary understood what it was like to give her all to her Master.

My alabaster box is personal to me. In it, I carry forgiveness, love, joy, reconciliation, restoration, my worship, my time with Jesus; the essence of the new creation God has made me. God transformed the old me into a new person. Unforgiveness, bitterness, sorrow, and pain were exchanged for this fragrant, new oil I now carry.

My perfume fills my surroundings, my fragrance is powerful, and my fragrance in God’s hands will encourage, heal, bless, and instruct others.

Only you, God, and I know the cost of our oil.

Breaking open your box at Jesus’ feet symbolizes pouring your all into Him; He, in turn, turns your mess into a message of love. God desires that you surrender your trials and tests into His care so that He can turn them and your life into an amazing testimony of devotion and love.

Each of us carries a unique fragrance, God alone knows. Our unique spiritual DNA fragrance is the result of our crushing. It is our unique essence, a fragrance God will use to reach another, drawing them to Himself. Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” God’s plan for your life is precious; you must therefore recognize the value of your oil and guard it, releasing it only in obedience and humility, according to God’s plans. Carefully guard your oil so it doesn’t break recklessly.

Judas was concerned with Mary’s gesture. All he saw was dollar signs. Judas didn’t understand the principle of worship and submission, like many of us don’t. He was looking at Mary and her sacrifice through natural eyes, eyes of greed, so he missed entirely the spiritual lesson being carried out right in front of him. Judas was only interested in the “one year’s salary” he saw being poured over Jesus’ feet. But Jesus was interested in Mary’s heart, a heart filled with humility, benevolence, and generosity. 1 Samuel 16:7 says: “For man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

Jesus said, “Judas cared less about the poor.” He had no interest in helping anyone; he just wanted to acquire more money. Judas had a greed issue.

The alabaster box is a test for each of us. What kind of test? A test to reveal the nature of your heart. A test of trust. When we can break our Alabaster box at the feet of Jesus, as Mary did, it indicates we trust Him as Mary did.

How do we do this?

Remember that the box is not physical; it is a spiritual precept.

 You break open your alabaster box when you come before Jesus as you are, and lay your burdens at His feet. When you pray with expectancy, when you cry out to Him, knowing and believing that He’s the only help you have. When you call His name, knowing He is the God who sees you, “El Roi.” Exchanging your will for His and surrendering all you carry at His feet, and leaving it there. And by trusting Him to direct your ways, by reading His Word, knowing that when you do this, you can experience true freedom Jesus promised!

Matt 22:37: Jesus replied,” ‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.” This is how we break our alabaster box at His feet. A person can be wonderful and well-intentioned, like Martha, yet not fully surrendered. But being fully surrendered is what Jesus desires; surrender pleases God; it holds greater spiritual value.

You must understand that there is a significant difference, spiritually speaking, between being well-intended and fully surrendered.

I pray that, like Mary, you desire to be fully surrendered. If so, pray this short prayer with me: Father, come into my heart today and make me new. Help me let go of my old ways so I can have new oil and become a new creation in You. Today, I open my heart to you and pray in the name of Jesus that you help me guard my alabaster box, my life, and heart. Amen.

Fixed Obedience.. John 21:15

 “‘So when they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love Me more than these [others do—with total commitment and devotion]?'”

Luke 14:25-34 clearly lays out Jesus’ unadorned, blunt definition of what being His disciple entails—at least in part. Bottom line—it’s sacrificial at its core. That’s not so surprising when we consider that we, His disciples, are the students of a sacrificial King. It would rightly follow then, that we too would be expected to sacrifice…

There is a moment after the worship has ended and the sermon’s been preached when emotions are running high. In researching Luke 14, it became clear that Jesus was actually thinning out the throng of would be applicants. He knew many were following on feet fueled strictly by emotion. Folks consciences have perhaps been pricked—they’ve been stirred. Moments later they are on their way to the altar saying yes to Jesus. Yes, I’ll follow you. Yes, I’ll do whatever it is you ask of me. Yes.

They say yes having no clue what saying yes to Jesus will actually cost them.

They failed to read the fine print on their application for discipleship. Often they are simply following  their feelings, or, equally, they’re blindly following another’s lead. They’d gotten caught up, as so many do, in the emotion and awe of seeing miracles performed—seeing friends and loved ones healed and, they wanted some of that for themselves. Who can blame them? Wouldn’t you want a healing if you or your wife, child, brother or sister, mother were sick? Yet, Jesus knew anyone who came after Him fueled solely by emotion would eventually die on the battlefield. Mortally wounded in the inevitable war waged against their pseudo-faith. “Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you—unless, of course, you fail the test?” 1 Corinthians 13:5.

Speaking the Truth in love He tells them this:

Here’s what it’s going to cost you to follow me; I demand your complete allegiance—your undivided loyalty. For some, following me will split your family, marriage, relationships in two. For others, not so much. Yet, even among those “not so much” there will still be moments when what I’ve asked you to do, where I’ve asked you to go, will not line up with the hopes, dreams, plans, or desires of those who love you. Those who think they know best. They will demand you follow their ways and not mine. Whose voice will you follow then? See here’s the thing, if it’s not mine, then it’s best you just stay in your seat. I get it, I do. I understand emotions better than anyone—I created them. Lived with them just as you do. But, hear me, they can’t be trusted and, they can get you killed. I know that’s hard for you to understand right now, your sight is limited to the here and now—this moment only. In that, I have a great advantage seeing your end as well as your beginning. Nonetheless, I assure you it isn’t your time—yet. Trust me and live another day. I am not finished with you. Trust my timing…

Some in that crowd had ears that heard and they decided in their hearts that, come what may, they would do whatever this Jesus asked of them. Most however, turned away. And, as foretold, over time their great swells of emotion ebbed, and life returned to normal. Even so, Jesus knew the few He had spoken to. He knows His sheep will hear His voice and follow Him anywhere He leads them…

Being a just God however, everyone must be equally informed of the cost of loving Him. Hence the Law and the Prophets. The cost of saying yes to Him—of dying that they may live. Of giving all away that they might have all that really matters. That they may not be found as a half-finished work, a mere shell of a building. A Shell constructed by one who builds with their emotions in the one hand and their lack of knowledge—gnosis, in the other.One lacking a sure foundation and the strength necessary to weather the storms. Ours is not a low-cost, low-risk endeavor. Rather, being a disciple of Jesus, having faith in Him, is an all-in adventure. But make no mistake, there will be perilous moments along the way.  “‘Many will say to Me on that day [when I judge them], ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, and driven out demons in Your name, and done many miracles in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them publicly, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me [you are banished from My presence], you who act wickedly [disregarding My commands]’ Matthew 7:22-23

Jesus will always have those that are willingly to follow Him from a safe distance. Crosses are not easy to carry, and flesh-piercing nails don’t play! Following this Jesus will cost you your life. A small price to pay for gaining your life…

If this the first time your hearing this little lamb—I know, it’s shocking—but I love you too much to leave you ignorant. More, Jesus loves you so much He made sure I wrote this. He also made sure you were here today to read it. See, He didn’t want you to take one more step in your pseudo-faith, go one more day, without knowing; “the Truth the whole Truth and nothing but the Truth.” Why? He has a plan for your life. And, He’s about to move in it. You have heard His voice. He has singled you out of the crowd of emotional followers. He has called you to be a true believer—a disciple. It’s why you’re struggling right now. “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, or lose heart when He rebukes you. For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastises everyone He receives as a son.” Endure suffering as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father..? Hebrews 12:5-7. Take heart beloved, your application has been Hand selected—the job of disciple is yours. If, you’ll pick up your cross and follow wherever He may lead.

He’s got you! Just do as He asks. Do all that He asks. And, continue to follow Him. If you’re thinking to yourself, “I don’t deserve this” you’re absolutely spot on.  No one deserves this unfathomable honor! However, you’re in good company. Neither David or Peter or Paul. Neither did Abraham, Noah or Rehab the prostitute. None of them believed they deserved Jesus either. And yet…

Peter will vouch for me on this.

I believe the reason the Holy Spirit led me to our Scripture verse rather than one taken from Luke 14 is because of the lesson we witness in its reading. Peter, hand-chosen by God, is being restored to ministry. Peter, this legend of the faith—this vessel of divine revelation, this courageous father of the faith chosen to help birth God’s Church fell—and he fell hard. After having his great revelation of who Jesus was, after having walked and talked and eaten and lived with Him for three years, after having witnessed His miracles, after having performing miracles of his own—Peter not only denied knowing Jesus three times; He ran off and abandoned Him during His final hours on earth!

Peter left Jesus high and dry all-the-while Jesus was dripping the Blood that had saved Peter.  Then he began to call down curses, and he swore to them, “I don’t know the man!” Immediately a rooster crowed. Then Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken: “Before the rooster crows, you will disown me three times.” And he went outside and wept bitterly. Matthew 26:74-75.

Failure does not mean your finished. More, that God is finished with you. Three times Peter denied knowing Christ. And three times Christ in turn asked Peter, “do you love me.” Agape love that is. Greek for unconditional love. Jesus was using these final moments with His friend to both restore Peter and to teach him. Unbeknownst to Peter however, Jesus was stretching him for the weight of the ministry he was about to walk into. And, if one’s ear is keen they’ll hear Jesus’ prophetic Word spoken over their life as well. Restoration is coming!

From this moment in Scripture on, until he was martyred for Christ’s sake, Peter followed after the example of fixed obedience set in place by His Lord…

Yet, God saw fit to use the whole of Peter’s earthly life to extract every last drop of promise He had placed in him. God used his every sin, his betrayal, lies, every moment he’d displayed lack of faith; God used to crush Peters flesh that He would extract from him the pure oil that He had placed within Him.  His restoration completed in Christ, Peter finally heard, “Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful and trustworthy over a little, I will put you in charge of many things; share in the joy of your master” –Matthew 25:23-24.

Be encouraged today my friend. Fix your eyes on the Author and Finisher of your faith. Fix your heart on Jesus. Allow Him to remove your dross. Every sin of rebellion, unbelief, idolatry, every impurity that remains in you. And, let no man, job, wife, child, desire, or dream deter you from putting Jesus first—above all else. Those in the crowd were followers Jesus however was speaking to His disciples. Let those who have ears hear. “A large crowd was following Jesus. He turned around and said to them, “If you want to be my disciple, you must, by comparison, hate everyone else—your father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even your own life. Otherwise, you cannot be my disciple. And if you do not carry your own cross and follow me, you cannot be my disciple” –Luke 14:25-27. Emphasis my own.

Friend whether you’re here for the first time or the tenth time, it’s no accident. Jesus is speaking to you. What is it He’s asking you to turn from, to let go of, that you might fully turn towards Him? Ask, and He will be faithful to show you—that is, if He hasn’t already. And, if you’re here today and have not yet accepted Christ, now is the time. Today is the day. Jesus is calling you. Won’t you answer His call?

The answer to this one question will change your life. “…do you love Me more than these [others do—with total commitment and devotion]?

 

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