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Rending Your Heart.

July 5, 2025 /

Matthew Botelho

“Now, therefore,” says the Lord, “Turn to Me with all your heart, with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning.” So rend your heart, and not your garments; Return to the Lord your God, For He is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness; And He relents from doing harm.” –Joel 3:12-13

God was speaking to the nation of Israel through His prophet, Joel, telling them to return to Him because of His unending love. But God’s people were sin-full, and our Holy God did not, does not, cannot, abide sin. God is holy and just. “Your eyes are too pure to look on evil; you cannot tolerate wrong.” –Habakkuk 1:13

To be separated from God is spiritual death; we’ll read about this Truth in just a moment. Separation from God means our spirit man is sleeping. Ephesians 5:14 tells us to awaken! “Therefore it says, ‘Awake, O sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.'”  Man was cut off from God the very moment he rebelled against God in the garden. Sounds kind of harsh. But was it harsh or just? Let’s read in Genesis 2:15-17: “Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and to keep it. And the Lord God commanded the man saying, “Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; but of the tree of knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in that day that you eat of it you shall surely die.”

When God gives us a command to follow, it is best to adhere to His commands. They’re meant to protect you from harm. But if we use our free will rebelliously, choosing not to obey God’s commands, that one choice can be the undoing of us.

Genesis 3:2-6 shows us just how easily this can happen. “And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, “You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.” Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” –Genesis 3:2-5

Envision this: the serpent comes and tempts you. Whispering that if you sin this one time, it won’t harm you. Instead, it will be to your benefit—you can almost hear him saying,  “Do it! Enjoy it! Don’t worry about what God said; He’ll forgive you.”

“So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.” –Genesis 3:6

Satan is a liar and a thief! He hates us, plain and simple. Both Adam and Eve, man and wife, were deceived by Satan. Before God had even created Eve, He commanded Adam not to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. God had given Adam everything good to eat, that he might eat freely and tend the ground. “And the LORD God commanded him, “You may eat freely from every tree of the garden, but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil; for in the day that you eat of it, you will surely die.” –Genesis 2:17. Both the man and his wife knew they should not eat from the tree yet they went against what God told Adam not to do and decided to listen to the serpent.

Ever notice that when you are busy doing something with God, spending time with Him in worship and prayer, you have a lower chance of doing something foolish?

James writes in his letter, “Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” –James 4:7-8. When you are distracted by other things, such as scrolling through social media or playing hours of video games, you become spiritually weak and drained—spiritual embers may still be burning, sure, but there’s no longer a white-hot flame. Now, I won’t deny that I have issues with scrolling on Facebook. Ten minutes can turn into an hour and a half, or maybe longer if I let it. I’m spending the limited time God has afforded me, the time He wants to spend with me, on mindless scrolling instead. “For you shall worship no other god, for the Lord, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God” – Exodus 34:14

Do not let distractions become an idol.

What you feed on is what you will be full of: junk in, junk out.

If you spend your time watching pornography, you will be consumed with lust. If you spend it watching the news all the time, you will be consumed with sorrow, fear, and anxiety. The world is a dark place, and it is getting darker. Instead, carry the Light of Jesus into a dark and dying world desperate for hope. Jesus said,” Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” –Matthew 5:16

Do you not know how much Jesus loves you?

Do you not remember the unimaginable agony, suffering, and humiliation Jesus endured on His Cross for you and me? Being sinless, He chose to bear the weight of our sins on Himself. “For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” – 2 Corinthians 5:21

We are no longer of this world because Jesus has separated us from the world. Listen to Jesus’ heart not only for His disciples but for you, child of God. “They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. Sanctify them in Your truth. Your word is truth. As You sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world. And for their sakes I sanctify Myself, that they also may be sanctified by the truth” –John 17:16-19

You have been and are being sanctified by the finished work of Jesus Christ and the Truth of the Gospel of His Word. “And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” –1 Corinthians 6:11. We are all sinners, but through Christ Jesus, God has made a way for us to be set free.

Such freedom begins with you having a relationship with Jesus—accepting His invitation to be your Lord and Savior by allowing Him to do the work of transforming your life into what He created it and you to be. “Throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.” –Ephesians 4:22-24.

Freedom also entails God cleansing our hearts (our minds, will, and emotions) by bringing them into submission to Jesus Christ. “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” –2 Corinthians 10:5.

In Matthew 16:24-26, Jesus said, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world but loses his own soul? Or what will a man exchange for his soul?” Matthew 16:24-26

Repentance means turning away from your sin. To rend your heart means to tear it in sorrow for your sins. Sin is a condition of the heart that only Jesus can heal, forgive, and wash away, leaving you spotless, regardless of your past sins and failures. Hear God’s promise to you in Isaiah 1:18: “Come now, and let us reason together,” Says the Lord. “Though your sins are like scarlet, They shall be as white as snow; Though they are red like crimson, They shall be like wool.”

We here at SonsOftheSea pray that you will rend your heart today and receive Jesus as Lord Savior and be washed clean of all your sins. “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.” –Mark 1:15

Amen.

What Really Matters…

June 28, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

“For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.” –Philippians 1:10.

Within one short verse, Paul uses “you” twice. He’s making it plain to each Philippian believer he’s addressing, and to us, that our relationship with Jesus is not only personal, more, that it matters to God how each of us walks out our faith. “I want you to understand.” Why? “So that you may live pure and blameless lives.”

Just because?

No!

Your Christian walk matters because you have been chosen in Christ, set apart, called to live a holy life, even as your Father is Holy. You are God’s Ambassador, beloved. You have been chosen both to carry and spread the Light of the World! “For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people’s sins against them. And he gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation. So we are Christ’s ambassadors; God is making his appeal through us. We speak for Christ when we plead, “Come back to God!” –2 Corinthians 5:19-20.

God is using Paul’s voice to speak His Truth, to His people—the Church.

Jesus, the Living Word of God, points anyone with ears to hear toward the Father. Directing them to emulate His own walk by doing His Father’s will. “But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. For if you listen to the word and don’t obey, it is like glancing at your face in a mirror. You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.” –James 1:22-25.

Still, God knows that we, like our Philippian brothers to whom Paul was speaking, are incapable of living pure and righteous lives; that we, like they, cannot be filled with the fruit of the Spirit apart from the ongoing, sanctifying work of Jesus Christ. Apart from Him, you cannot talk, walk, think, or love like Jesus. “For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.” –Philippians 2:13. God’s Holy Spirit is at work in us to shape, mold, and remove the dross of your sin, shame, brokenness, and guilt, so that as we cling to Him, we might look, walk, talk, and think more and more, like His Son, Jesus. “And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.” –2 Corinthians 3:18.

In Malachi 3:3, God makes it clear that He is a Refiner. “He will sit like a refiner of silver, burning away the dross. He will purify the Levites, refining them like gold and silver, so that they may once again offer acceptable sacrifices to the Lord.” As He was with Israel, His chosen people, so too with His Church—we’ve been grafted in after all, in Christ Jesus. “He redeemed us in order that the blessing promised to Abraham would come to the Gentiles in Christ Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the promise of the Spirit.” –Galatians 3:14.

It is God’s Holy Spirit at work in us, smelting and purifying, forging, molding, and shaping.

In the fire of affliction, we’re made soft, pliable, usable—more Christ-like in our reliance on the Father. And so it’s there that God does His work of remaking us. In the Refiner’s fire, our lifelong journey of cycling through times of fire, forging, and water begins to burn off the dross of the world that has covered us over—encased us, really, like some molten shell—blinding us from seeing who we were created to be before time existed. Before, as His Word calls it, “The foundation of the earth,” hence, the need for our refining. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms. For He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world to be holy and blameless in His presence. In love He predestined us for adoption as His sons through Jesus Christ, according to the good pleasure of His will.” –Ephesians 1:3-5.

God’s Word is Pure.

Thus, as we drink it in, it has the power to refine us—renewing our minds, imparting wisdom, depositing joy, and purifying our hearts. “The instructions of the Lord are perfect, reviving the soul. The decrees of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple. The commandments of the Lord are right, bringing joy to the heart. The commands of the Lord are clear, giving insight for living.” –Psalm 19:7-8.

Yet knowing holiness isn’t something we could ever achieve apart from Jesus, in one inconceivable act of love so pure and unfathomable, God sent His only Son into the world to die. Why? Because only a Holy, Perfect, Sinless God Himself could atone for your sins and mine. “For God made the only one who did not know sin to become sin for us, so that we might become the righteousness of God through our union with him.” –2 Corinthians 5:21.

Child of God, having sacrificed His only Son for you, remember, your salvation is personal. God wanted you to be restored into right relationship with Him through Jesus’s death and resurrection, able to receive New Life; is it any wonder then that God used Paul to remind you of ” what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.“

Still, the very God who created you knows your frailty, beloved, your inability to “remain in Him” apart from Him. “I am the vine; you are the branches. The one abiding in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit. For apart from Me you are able to do nothing.” –John 15:5. Hence why, from that same pool of unplumbed love, God promised you this: “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will surely help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” –Isaiah 41:10.

If you have strayed from the narrow way, beloved, repent. Return to the Father who is waiting to receive you, arms wide open, eyes already watching the horizon to catch a first glimpse of you, and then. “…live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.”

Jesus is the only One who can enable you and me to live that pure and blameless life He requires of His children. He’s a good Father who gives His children the supernatural ability to do all things through Christ. “I can do all things [which He has called me to do] through Him who strengthens and empowers me [to fulfill His purpose—I am self-sufficient in Christ’s sufficiency; I am ready for anything and equal to anything through Him who infuses me with inner strength and confident peace.]” –Philippians 4:13.

You dear friend, yes, you. The Lord has led you here today. It’s no accident that you’ve read this teaching all the way through. That stirring you feel in your belly, that’s God. It’s Him saying that He loves you and wants a relationship with you. Won’t you welcome Jesus into your life now by acknowledging your need for Him? Listen to what He promises if you do: “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” –Matthew 7:7-8.

Present In His Peace

June 21, 2025 /

Matthew Botelho

“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” –John 14:27

Jesus says the above while meeting with His disciples the night before His crucifixion, during the Passover Supper. When Jesus spoke these Words to his disciples, they must have been wondering, “What do you mean ‘peace I leave with you?'” He had walked with them and taught them for three years, and now He was saying He was leaving “His peace” with them? What?! “Where’s He going?” must have been the question circling the table. Surely, none of the disciples felt very peaceful when Jesus spoke those words to them. His words were probably met with confusion, as the disciples did not understand what Jesus was talking about—yet.

I know I have felt like the disciples must have a few times in my walk with Jesus.

Not knowing what would happen or where to go when a problem arises. And in my humanity, I forget who I have with me, that I am never alone. The reason for that? I took my eyes off Jesus and focused instead on how big the problem in front of me looked. Has that ever happened to you, friend?

 I needed to be reminded that Jesus is and always has been with me during my times of trouble. And when we read John 14:26, Jesus says, “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom My Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things I said to you.” –John 14:26

At the moment of our salvation, we are sealed with the Holy Spirit; He indwells us now. From that moment until God calls us home, His Holy Spirit helps us through every trial. Listen to how Jesus describes this indwelling. “If you love Me, keep my commandments. And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide in you forever–the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him, nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be with you and will be in you.” –John 14:15-17

We know God’s Holy Spirit is forever with us, in us, because when Jesus told His disciples He had to leave them and return to the Father, He promised them this: “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.” –John 14:18

The Holy Spirit lives in us to empower us, lead and guide us, and remind us that God is always with those who believe in their heart and confess Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” –Romans 10:9-10.

The Holy Spirit is with us through every problem and in every storm we face.

He is the peace of God that reminds us that no matter what we face or whatever happens, God is always with us.

We’re the ones who need to remind ourselves,” God is with me!”

Even when you don’t see evidence of that unchanging Truth, “God is with you!”

Even when you don’t feel it, “God is with you!”

 I pray this Truth is a comfort to someone reading this today.

There is an account in the Gospel of Mark where this peace was tested in the hearts of all the disciples. At that time, they were all figuring this out through the teachings Jesus was sharing with them. They were trying to understand who Jesus was, really. In Mark 4:35-38, it reads: “On the same day when evening had come, He said to them, “Let us cross over to the other side.” Now when they had left the multitude, they took Him along in the boat as He was. And other little boats were also with Him. And a great windstorm arose, and the wind and the waves beat into the boat, so that it was already filling.” But He was in the stern, asleep on a pillow. And they awoke Him and said to Him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing!” –Mark 4:35-38

Ok, so there are at least four experienced fishermen in that boat who must have been through many storms, but this one seems to hit a little harder than the others. They were trying to do what came naturally to them by allowing their knowledge and experience of sailing and the sea to take over. Yet, no matter how much experience they or any of us may have with small storms, unknowable, more powerful storms will always rise up. It is in those moments that we tend to forget Jesus’ promise to be with us always, and so fear and anxiety “fill our boat.”

Jesus’ disciples forgot who was with them in their boat, that Jesus was sleeping peacefully, unbothered by what was going on around Him. I wonder, have you ever experienced the type of peace that allows you to sleep soundly when all hell is breaking loose? That was most certainly not the level of peace the disciples were experiencing. Instead, His disciples asked, “Don’t you even care, Jesus?!” How many of us have asked that very same question?

In our humanity, we yell, “Don’t you even care, God, that we are suffering?”

Yet, all is not lost, beloved in Christ Jesus.

Scripture continues this account. “Then He arose and rebuked the wind, and the sea, “Peace be still.” And the wind ceased and there was a great calm.” –Mark 4:39

When God hears the cry of His children, He rises up and rebukes the wind, bringing us peace in the storm. The apostle Paul writes to the church in Philippi, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” –Philippians 4:6-7

God is not asleep as the world may believe.

He is fully aware of your present circumstances. The question we need to ask ourselves is, “Are we present in His Presence?” If God is speaking during your storm, are you listening?

Be assured, beloved, that you can have peace in the storm. Jesus will give you this very peace to all who call Him Lord. He promised it to us. “My peace I leave with you, My peace I give you.”

Let this be the day you ask Jesus to give you peace in your storm by asking Him into your heart. Repent of your sins and be made new by His precious Blood shed for you. “For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” –Isaiah 41:13.

We at Sonsofthesea are praying for you all. Amen.

Upsets To Setups.

June 7, 2025 /

Matthew Botelho

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet our inward man is being renewed day by day.” –2 Corinthians 4:16

Paul reminds the church at Corinth not to lose heart when the “troubles of this world” arise. What our outward man, our fleshly self, sees may look overwhelming to us, but it may in no way be how our inner man, our spirit, sees things. Today’s Scripture reminds us that our inner man is renewed day by day, meaning that if you are in Christ, you are daily gaining more and more spiritual strength and insight. In verse 17, Paul continues by saying, “For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory.”

What lies ahead of the believer in Jesus Christ is the exceeding and eternal weight of being in the Presence of Almighty God forever.

This means no more pain, no more suffering, no more sadness —all the physical pain and illness we experience in this world, all the emotional pain and abuse the world throws at us, will be gone forever. “And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.” –Revelation 21:4

Whatever you are going through at this moment, God is working it out in your favor, so be encouraged! “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” –Romans 8:28.

That job you lost, or the relationship that ended, may look like a huge upset. But let me remind you today that God uses upsets for setups!

God used a devastating upset as a setup with Joseph when his brothers sold him into slavery.

Joseph endured it. He walked with God even when his immediate circumstances seemed hopeless and working against him. Joseph had this hope, a key in his heart, which would be taught a thousand years later to people listening to Jesus giving His sermon on the Mount. What is the key that gave Joseph and gives us hope? “But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” –Matthew 6:33

Through everything Joseph went through, the favor of God was with him. “The Lord was with Joseph, so he succeeded in everything he did as he served in the home of his Egyptian master.” –Genesis 39:2

Now, slaves did not stay in their master’s house; they had their own accommodations. They lived separately, but not Joseph. Joseph remained in his master’s home. How was this possible? “And his master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord made all he did prosper in his hand.” –Genesis 39:3

The favor of God far surpassed anything the world could throw at Joseph. Why? Above all, God had chosen Joseph and enabled him to do what was right in His sight. Joseph set his mind on obeying not only his earthly master but, more importantly, God, the One who had shown him such favor.

Just as Joseph had an enemy out to destroy him, we do too.

Satan wants nothing more than to derail your faith. He will always try to throw a wrench into the good works God has for you to do. He knows how to distract you and sidetrack you because he studies you. He patiently waits for the moment to strike you when you’re at your weakest, perhaps when you’re paying more attention to the “light affliction” happening around or to you instead of keeping your eyes fixed on Jesus despite it.

Peter warns us about Satan’s stealthy attacks in his letter, saying, “Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.” —1 Peter 5:6-8

In Joseph’s life, Satan used the wife of his master, Potiphar, to try and seduce him not once but twice. The Bible says, “That it came to pass after these things that his master’s wife cast longing eyes on Joseph, and she said, “Lie with Me.” But he refused and said to his master’s wife, “Look my master does not know what is with me in the house, and has committed all that he has to my hand.” –Genesis 39:7-8

Joseph, a God-fearing man, being sober-minded, saw that it was not right even to consider such a wicked thing. He had dedicated himself to Potiphar as a servant, knowing that his position was granted to him by God. Knowing his great position and privilege, look what else Joseph says to his seductress, “There is no one greater in this house than I, nor has he kept back anything from me but you, because you are his wife. How can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God? So it was, as she spoke to Joseph day by day, that he did not heed her, to lie with her or to be with her.” –Genesis 39:9-10.

Joseph acknowledged that all favor had been given to him from God.

He makes that plain when he says, “How can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?”

When you are tempted or at a low point, remember God’s promise found in 1 Corinthians 10:13 to provide a way of escape from the temptation or affliction you are facing. “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”

Jesus had been led into the wilderness by God’s Holy Spirit, where he fasted and prayed and was tempted by Satan for 40 days and nights. “Again the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, “all these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.” Then Jesus said to him, “Away with you, Satan! For it is written ‘You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.’ –Matthew 4:8-10

Whoever Jesus spoke to, He pointed them back to the word of God, giving glory to the Father, even Satan himself. Jesus openly acknowledged all authority, and honor is due God the Father alone.

As believers in Christ Jesus, like Joseph, we are to seek the kingdom of God first.

How do we do this?

By acknowledging Jesus as Lord over our lives. We do it in our worship, in prayer, and in our quiet time reading God’s Inerrant Word. Jesus says, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” –John 14:6

If you are God’s child, when troubles come, remember that you have a God who truly cares for you. Jesus says, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him “—John 14:23

We at Sonsofthesea are praying for you. Take a moment today to thank God for everything He has done and continues to do in your life. And if you have not yet asked Jesus into your heart, I invite you to repent of your sins, confess to God that you are sorry and mean it, and receive Jesus as the Lord of your life. Jesus will wash away your EVERY sin by the power found in His Precious Blood, shed for you. Paul writes to the church in Corinth, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away, behold, all things have become new.” –2 Corinthians 5:17 Amen.

They Were Given A Promise.

May 31, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

Paul said to the centurion and the soldiers, “Unless these men remain on the ship, you cannot be saved.” –Acts 27:3.

Roughly 2,000 years separated the time of Noah from that of the Apostle Paul. Yet God, being Omnipresent, gave each of these men this same, sure promise. “No harm will befall you or those who are with you.” And, despite the perilous circumstances in which they and their companions would find themselves, unsurprisingly, God did not break His promise to either Noah or Paul. Nor will Jesus break His promise to you, fellow believer. “God is not a man, so he does not lie. He is not human, so he does not change his mind. Has he ever spoken and failed to act? Has he ever promised and not carried it through?” –Numbers 23:19.

Let’s examine what the Scriptures say about how God fulfilled His promise to Noah and the Apostle Paul, and in doing so, discover how God’s keeping His promise to these two men relates to you and me, beloved.

Noah:

Knowing what would soon overtake the entire world, God promised Noah that neither he nor anyone with him would perish. “So God said to Noah, ‘I am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them. I am surely going to destroy both them and the earth.” –Genesis 6:13.

But hear God’s sure promise to Noah and those who were with him: “But I will establish my covenant with you, and you will enter the Ark—you and your sons and your wife and your sons’ wives with you. A male and female of each kind entered, just as God had commanded Noah. Then the Lord closed the door behind them.” –Genesis 6:18; 7:16.

From the very beginning of God’s dealings with man, because He is long-suffering and the very definition of loving kindness itself, God has made a way for His chosen to escape His just judgments; that is, God fulfilling His Word—our part of that equation is our obeying His commands. Here’s what I mean: What good would God’s promise to save Noah and his family from what was to come if Noah had not obeyed God by building the very thing God would use to save them all?

Did God’s command to build a boat cause Noah to question momentarily? If so, surely it was not because Noah doubted God. Instead, perhaps such questioning came because neither Noah, his family, nor the rest of the world had ever seen nor felt a single raindrop touch their skin. Never mind experiencing the amount of rain it would take to destroy the world.

Yet even if Noah did have questions, he nonetheless not only did what God commanded—he followed God’s directions to the letter! The result? Read it for yourself:

“Noah was now 601 years old. On the first day of the new year, ten and a half months after the flood began, the floodwaters had almost dried up from the earth. Noah lifted back the covering of the boat and saw that the surface of the ground was drying. Two more months went by, and at last the earth was dry! Then God said to Noah, “Leave the boat, all of you—you and your wife, and your sons and their wives. Release all the animals—the birds, the livestock, and the small animals that scurry along the ground—so they can be fruitful and multiply throughout the earth.” So Noah, his wife, and his sons and their wives left the boat.” –Genesis 8:13-18.

God promised Noah that he and all those with him would safely come through what many others would not—if he obeyed God by entering what was sure to save him and his family.

Little did Noah know that the Ark God had him build was little more than a king-sized wooden placeholder for His very flesh and blood Son, King Jesus, who would one day tell those with ears to hear to enter Him and be saved. “Yes, I am the gate. Those who come in through me will be saved. They will come and go freely and will find good pastures. The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” –John 10:9-10.

And though it is God’s heart that none should perish—if we choose not to heed His warnings that something never before seen by man is coming—how then can we hold God responsible when what He foretold would come “suddenly” overtakes us? “When the Son of Man returns, it will be like it was in Noah’s day. In those days before the flood, the people were enjoying banquets and parties and weddings right up to the time Noah entered his boat. People didn’t realize what was going to happen until the flood came and swept them all away. That is the way it will be when the Son of Man comes.” –Matthew 24: 37-39.

The Apostle Paul: In Acts 23:11, God commanded Paul to go to Rome. “The following night the Lord stood near Paul and said, “Take courage! As you have testified about me in Jerusalem, so you must also testify in Rome.

And thus begins Paul’s journey towards Rome.

But not before we hear of a plot that had been brewing to kill Paul. How in Acts, Chapter 23, things were about to spill over as Paul stood before a crowd baying for his blood. Yet despite their visceral hatred and desire to kill him, Paul nonetheless dared to boldly declare that Jesus, the One True God who had appeared to him on the road to Damascus, had also commissioned him to reveal the Truth of who Jesus is to the Gentiles. “The next morning some Jews formed a conspiracy and bound themselves with an oath not to eat or drink until they had killed Paul. More than forty men were involved in this plot. They went to the chief priests and the elders and said, “We have taken a solemn oath not to eat anything until we have killed Paul. Now then, you and the Sanhedrin petition the commander to bring him before you on the pretext of wanting more accurate information about his case. We are ready to kill him before he gets here.” –Acts 23:12-15.

Still, God had charged Paul to go to Rome. Moreover, God had promised Paul that his journey would not end in death, neither his own nor that of any of those traveling aboard the ship on which he traveled.

God may a way of escape for Paul, as He always does for all of His children.

And so Paul boards the ship headed toward Rome, a ship destined to be ripped to shreds by a storm at sea, yet as promised, God saves all. “After they had gone a long time without food, Paul stood up before them and said: “Men, you should have taken my advice not to sail from Crete; then you would have spared yourselves this damage and loss. But now I urge you to keep up your courage, because not one of you will be lost; only the ship will be destroyed. Last night an angel of the God to whom I belong and whom I serve stood beside me and said, ‘Do not be afraid, Paul. You must stand trial before Caesar; and God has graciously given you the lives of all who sail with you.’ So keep up your courage, men, for I have faith in God that it will happen just as he told me.” –Acts 27:21-25.

There are times when God’s plans for our lives come with some pretty severe storms or trials. Storms and trials that may bring us to what surely looks like our end.

Approximately 1,950 years stand between the Apostle Paul and you, today’s believers, but, as it was with Noah and Paul, so it must be with you and me, child of God. We must wholeheartedly obey whatever God calls us to do in these last moments of time, standing boldly for what we know is the Truth, trusting that no storm, no sudden event that is not part of God’s plan for our lives, will ever overtake us.

Just as the Lord Himself sealed Noah and his family safely inside the Ark, and as surely as God’s Sovereign hand of protection was on Paul, so too will God seal all those who are His, ensuring their safety and safe passage home, no matter what happens.

Let me ask you, then, are you sealed in Christ?

Are you His—all His?

Have you welcomed Jesus into your life?

Will you?

“Trust in the Lord completely, and do not rely on your own opinions. With all your heart rely on him to guide you, and he will lead you in every decision you make. Become intimate with him in whatever you do, and he will lead you wherever you go.” Proverbs 3:5-6.

The Gate That Leads To Life.

May 24, 2025 /

Matthew Botelho

“Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to Life, and there are few who find it.” –Matthew 7:13-14

In this opening scripture, Jesus teaches the people what it means to follow Him. I remember reading this passage when I first started walking with our Lord, and it puzzled me. “What gate am I supposed to walk through?” I thought to myself, looking around. I wonder if Jesus saw that same reaction from the people He taught and His disciples.

Now, after maturing some, I see and hear this scripture, and it brings me Life. Jesus is the Gate that leads to Life. He is the Narrow Way, and not many find it. Jesus said, “I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture.” –John 10:9

There is a broad path that leads to destruction. I picture it as a bunch of people crammed together, leaping over one another, trying to get ahead of one another, doing whatever it takes to make it or to beat out another person, fueled by a destructive “me first mentality.” Allowing fleshly desires to overtake and consume them; that’s a dark place to be.

The apostle Paul writes to the Church in Galatia about these works of the flesh. What was happening then is still happening today; there’s nothing new. Paul writes, “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultry, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissension, heresies, envy, murder, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.” –Galatians 5:19-21

When we come to know Jesus, He changes our mindset from darkness into Light, from death to Life. Jesus has made the way! Darkness flees when the Light is present. Jesus says, “He who believes in Me, believes not in Me but in Him who sent Me. And he who sees Me sees Him who sent Me. I have come as a light into the world, that whoever believes in Me should not abide in darkness.” –John 12:44-46

A believer’s lifestyle needs to be one of worship and prayer, not trying to gain an advantage over another to get ahead. Jesus says, “But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” –Matthew 6:33. We walk with Jesus down this narrow path, set apart from the “worldly” lifestyle. We are to be transformed into a new way of living.

Jesus even said this to the religious leaders of the day, the Pharisees and Sadducees at the temple, “Woe to you scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you cleanse the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of extortion and self-indulgence. Blind Pharisee, first cleanse the inside of the cup and dish, that the outside of them may be clean also.” –John 23:25-26.

I recall my pastor saying many times, “true salvation is not first seen from the outside. It starts from the inside, then it shows itself outwardly.” Thanks, pastor Lino! He always points us directly to the Word of God. “When God our Savior revealed his kindness and love,  he saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit.” –Titus 3:4-5.

Your salvation is not based on what is on the outside, how good we look on the outside, but rather, salvation starts when you have been washed by the precious blood of Jesus Christ, which leads us to repentance. “Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?” –Romans 2:4

You can look all pristine and well put together on the outside, but be a total train wreck on the inside. This is why we must remember that works without faith in Jesus Christ will not save us.

Speaking to His Church, Jesus reminds us: “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; without Me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in Me, he is cast out as a branch and withered; and they gather them and throw them into the fire, and they are burned.” –John 15:5-6

Later, Jesus says, “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. By this My Father is glorified that you bear much fruit; so you will be my disciples.” –John 15:7-8

Let us abide together, Church. With Jesus as its Head and we as His Body.

There is no Life in the Body without The Head controlling or telling His Body how to move.

According to the Oxford Language Dictionary, to abide means: to accept or act in accordance with (a rule, a decision, or recommendation).

This means that when we decide to follow Jesus, we choose to follow Him fully. We follow Him fully by loving Him and following the statutes He laid down for us, His commandments. “If you love me, obey my commandments.” John 14:15.

Ask yourself, “If I am living for Jesus, am I truly walking this narrow path? Or have some things gotten in the way of my walk?” Did I allow anything to come in, causing me to stumble? Reading Galatians 5:19-21 reminds me to examine my heart and ask our Lord Jesus if anything needs to be repented and thrown away. As David writes in his psalm, “Search me, O Go, and know my heart; Try me, and know my anxieties; And see if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” –Psalm 139:23-24

David knew he was human and susceptible to sin. We are all human, and we all fall short. May I suggest you take a moment today to ask God to examine your heart?

If you were convicted after reading this teaching, I pray the Holy Spirit leads you to repent and ask for forgiveness. Repentance means to turn your mind and your heart away from that sin and worldly desires that lead to death, and ask Jesus to forgive you. “For godly sorrow produces repentance that leads to salvation without regret, but worldly sorrow produces death.” –2 Corinthians 7:10.

Decide today to repent and walk no more in your sin. “If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.” –Romans 10:9-10

We are praying for you all in Jesus’ name. Amen.

My Hiding Place.

May 17, 2025 /

Pastor Maria Braga

“Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” –Psalm 23:4.

In life, there are times when we feel on top of the world, everything is going well, and the mountain top becomes comfortable and highly appealing, but it can also often become a place of forgetfulness. When we are there, we forget that there are places opposite the mountain tops called valleys; when something suddenly happens, and we see ourselves descending from this fantastic “mountain” to those “valleys,” we are not even sure what’s happening because we forget in those moments that valleys even exist. That can be scary!

The question is: How do we handle such complex challenges when we suddenly face them?

There’s an interesting story in the Bible that King David talks about—a place he probably traveled through many times as a shepherd. David uses this place as a metaphor for difficult times; it appears to be a place he is very familiar with and one He compares hard times to. We, too, can compare our difficulties to this lesson or this visual King David shares, remembering that, like him, many of us have gone through similar trials. The place is called “The Valley of the Shadow of Death,” located between Jerusalem and Jericho.

The only time you can see sunshine at the bottom of this valley is at noon, when the sun is straight overhead. Sources say that it is still there today. It is a steep, winding road made narrow by rocks, with a massive cliff on the right side, 800′ in depth. It is a place of danger! David chose this place as his place of suffering and endurance during many of his trials; it was his hiding place.

There are three things I want to point out about valleys:

1- Valleys are temporary but a part of life.

Deuteronomy 11:11 says, “But the land you are crossing the Jordan to take possession of is a land of mountains and valleys that drinks rain from heaven.”

Valleys are a sure thing. Everyone goes through them at one point or another in a lifetime. As you read this text, you may either be coming out of a valley, entering a valley, being in the middle of a valley, or heading to another valley. These valleys are inevitable in life; they are part of it, and we know they are coming repeatedly through our journey. The best thing to do while in the valley is to pray and learn to listen to the sweet voice of the Holy Spirit there, and know that despite the magnitude of the valley, you are never alone. “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” –Heb 13:5. God’s love is with us as it was with David! Hold onto Him, and He will help you cross each valley.

Remember, you are never going to the valley; you are going through it, and that everyone encounters valleys: “The good man does not escape all troubles—he has them too. But the Lord helps him in everyone” –Psalm 34:19.

2- Valleys are at times unpredictable but fruitful by divine design.

Valleys can be a consequence of something we did, didn’t do, or something that happened to us outside our control. Valleys appear in many forms – a loss, a disappointment, a setback, an illness, trouble within a marriage, or finances. All forms are valid, but the question for those of faith is: How will you go through those valleys and still hold onto your faith?

Remember, valleys happen to believers as well as unbelievers.

Being a believer doesn’t spare us from the troubles this world brings. The difference between the believer and the unbeliever is that the person of faith goes through the valleys with Jesus. The unbeliever doesn’t have Jesus to carry them through those difficult valley moments when they can’t stand alone.

In the hiding place, being alone with your Maker is crucial. Some valleys can really bring you to a place of losing your joy! “Teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” –Matt 28:20. For the believer, God intends some valleys to grow our faith. The Lord takes us there to stretch and increase our endurance; we bring other valleys on ourselves.

Every choice we make, whether believers or unbelievers, will have consequences.

3- Valleys feel lonely, but we are not alone; God is with us!

I feel lonely, abandoned, and sad in a valley. I’ve learned to accept by knowing in the depths of my soul that I am not alone. Jesus’ promises to me stand forever. Yes, it feels lonely because the work God is doing in me cannot be done in public by anyone else; God is doing it in secret, in the valley “Our Secret Place.” God is chiseling pieces off to make me look more like Him. He is transforming me from areas that have been formed in my life over the decades I’ve lived, and things I’ve learned. He reserved this time just for the two of us. In these valley moments, like David, I say: “Even though I walk through” the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” –Psalm 23:4

I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the end of 2022.

Cancer was something I never thought would come to me. No one in my family has ever had this atrocious thing. At first, I was numb and couldn’t understand or accept what was happening. My first chemo treatment was a shocker. My hair falling out was a shocker. The pain I experienced was unbelievable. Amidst all of these valleys, God spoke to my heart at the very beginning. Thank you, Jesus. The day of my biopsy was tough for me. I was lying down, and so many student doctors were around me, poking me with needles, with the head doctor watching them. I couldn’t speak; I was in pain. Suddenly, in the depths of my spirit, I heard: “You shall live and not die.” My heart and my spirit leaped. The doctor noticed a sudden change in me and asked if I was ok. I said yes!

They continued the procedure, and I was now in my spirit, I believe – because I felt like God was right there with me, carrying me through this valley of agony. At another time, I took an injection within 24 hours of the first chemo, and I reacted horribly to it. My whole body felt like one big pulse, pulsing from head to toe. That entire day and the following night, I was literally in agony and felt like all my bones were being crushed. Amid it all, I kept calling Jesus. That was my prayer.

I heard the same voice I had heard before from the depths of my soul, but this time, His Words were “I AM.” These Words brought me such peace. I knew God was with me, and regardless of the suffering, He was carrying me, and I would be ok. Today, I share my healing story because He graciously and surely healed me in “My Hiding Place.”! Our Hiding Place can be the mountaintops of sweetness or the valleys of bitterness. Either way, we must stand firm and hold onto the promises of God for our lives.

Father God, I pray for every person reading these words today. Wherever they are in life, whatever valley they face, please give them the strength to endure it. To see You, and hear Your voice in their process. Touch their mind, body, and soul, and heal, encourage, bless, and carry them through their challenging valleys. I pray that if anyone doesn’t know You, Jesus, that person opens their heart and comes to salvation. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen

God Has A Promise For You, Too.

May 10, 2025 /

Elda Othello-Wrightington

                                                    Happy Mother’s Day!

Sonsofthesea ministry is praying that “mom” in all her glorious forms and titles is celebrated and honored this weekend! May you enjoy a blessed Mother’s Day, and may every Word of Psalm 46 be your portion today and every day, Mom. “God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.” –Psalm 46:5. And, for those who want nothing more than to be with your mom today, our heartfelt prayers for the peace of Christ and His comfort to be with you all.

Girl. Daughter. Sister. Wife. Mother. Grandmother. Aunt. Widow. Single. Divorced. These are titles and experiences women may encounter or journey into at some point. Whatever title you wear or experiences you have had, you are a woman first. More importantly, God loves you, sees you, and has a plan for you.

Often, on this life journey, many women find themselves uttering, “Am I seen?” “Does anyone care?” We feel forgotten and unnoticed. We might find that we are comparing ourselves to other women; sometimes celebrating with them in their journey and success, but secretly saying to ourselves, “Well… what about me? When will it be my turn?”

Listen, daughter, God has a plan for you, too. His plan is tied to a promise. And here is the revelation of the promise: EVERYONE’S PROMISE LOOKS DIFFERENT! And although different, all experiences “work together for the good for those who love God and are called according to His purpose.” –Romans 8:28, NIV.

Let’s look at two women in the bible, Sarah and Hagar. Both are mothers, yet their lives and motherhood journeys look different. Sarah was married to Abraham and had been promised a child. Yet for years, no child came. “Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children. But she had an enslaved Egyptian named Hagar; so she said to Abram, “The Lord has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my slave; perhaps I can build a family through her.” –Genesis 16:1-2.

Now that is desperation. I can understand Sarah’s desire to have a child. To have been promised a child and yet, because of her age and stage of life, her promise doesn’t come. I’ve been there. The idea of being able to conceive seems inconceivable and possibly painful. As the story continues, Abraham agrees with Sarai’s plan. The bible says, “He slept with Hagar, and she conceived. When she knew she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress.” –Genesis 16:4, NIV.

Can you imagine being Hagar? She didn’t ask for this; she was placed in the middle of their situation due to Sarai’s unbelief in her promise. Can you relate? How often do we find ourselves in someone else’s problem or situation that we had no business being in?

The plot thickens as Sarai blames her husband for her suffering and misery, as another woman is pregnant, and she isn’t. Not to mention, the bible tells us that Hagar despised her. As a result, Sarai mistreated Hagar and “so she fled from her.” –Genesis 16:5, NIV.

As the story continues, we read that God did not forget Hagar, even though the promise was for Sarah. God gave Hagar a promise, too. She wasn’t carrying the promise, but she was given a promise. “The angel of the Lord found Hagar near a spring in the desert; it was the spring that is beside the road to Shur. And he said, “Hagar, slave of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?” “I’m running away from my mistress Sarai,” she answered. Then the angel of the Lord told her, “Go back to your mistress and submit to her.” The angel added, “I will increase your descendants so much that they will be too numerous to count.” –Genesis 16:7-10.

This was Hagar’s promise, and in that moment, Hagar felt seen, heard, and validated. She gave this name to the Lord who had spoken to her: “You are the God who sees me,” for she said, “I have now seen the One who sees me.” –Exodus 16:13. You might be in a life season where you have experienced something similar or feel forgotten. Yet we learn from Hagar that God sees you, no matter how isolated you feel. And He can reveal much to you during your pain and desolate situation.

As the story continues, Hagar returns, and Sarai is still without a child. BUT GOD DIDN’T FORGET SARAI.

Can you imagine being Sarai and feeling like “my plan failed” as she watched Hagar raise her son, knowing things wouldn’t unfold as she had hoped. It was easy for bitterness and sadness to have settled in her heart.

Have you ever felt like Sarai?

Watching someone else experience something you wanted for yourself but didn’t get? Or more importantly, watching your plan for success does not go as planned. Can I encourage you, just like Sarai, God has not forgotten you; whatever it is the Lord promised you. “God also said to Abraham, ‘As for Sarai, your wife, you are no longer to call her Sarai; her name will be Sarah. I will bless her and will surely give you a son by her. I will bless her so that she will be the mother of nations; kings of peoples will come from her.” Abraham fell facedown; he laughed and said to himself, “Will a son be born to a man a hundred years old? Will Sarah bear a child at the age of ninety?” And Abraham said to God, “If only Ishmael might live under your blessing!” Then God said, “Yes, but your wife Sarah will bear you a son, and you will call him Isaac. I will establish my covenant with him as an everlasting covenant for his descendants after him. And as for Ishmael, I have heard you: I will surely bless him; I will make him fruitful and will greatly increase his numbers. He will be the father of twelve rulers, and I will make him into a great nation. But my covenant I will establish with Isaac, whom Sarah will bear to you by this time next year.” –Genesis 17:15-21.

In Genesis Chapter 18, three visitors confirm that Sarah would have a child. “Now Sarah was listening at the entrance to the tent, which was behind him. Abraham and Sarah were already very old, and Sarah was past the age of childbearing. So Sarah laughed to herself as she thought, “After I am worn out and my lord is old, will I now have this pleasure?” Then the Lord said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh and say, ‘Will I really have a child, now that I am old?’ Is anything too hard for the Lord? I will return to you at the appointed time next year, and Sarah will have a son.”

How often have we heard the lord drop a word into our hearts?

A word of encouragement concerning our situation, and it just seems too good to be true. Too hard to believe. I believe that’s where Sarah’s heart was. She was to the point where she laughed when she heard it. Daughter, you might be there.

But can I encourage you to dare to believe and hold on to the promise God has dropped in your heart once more?

At last, Genesis chapter 21: 1-2 tells us, “Now the Lord was gracious to Sarah as he had said, and the Lord did for Sarah what he had promised. Sarah became pregnant and bore a son to Abraham in his old age, at the very time God had promised him.”

Finally, Sarah receives her promise. She gives birth to Isaac, the promised child. She is happy and filled with love and laughter, yet something continues to unsettle her. Hagar.

I wish the end of the story were that both women lived together in unity, having received their promises. Both raise their children together as one family. But it doesn’t end that way. Unfortunately, Sarah still feels threatened by Hagar and her son. Once again, Hagar is asked to leave. But this time, Hagar is asked to leave instead of going on her own. “And Abraham rose up early in the morning, and took bread, and a bottle of water, and gave it unto Hagar, putting it on her shoulder, and the child, and sent her away: and she departed, and wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba.” –Genesis 21:14.

Once again, Hagar is placed in a situation that might have brought up feelings of rejection, abandonment, and feeling forgotten. Yet the beautiful thing about God is that although we may forget what He has told us, He never forgets His promises!

Even in the desert, God heard Hagar’s son crying.” “God heard the boy crying, and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, “What is the matter, Hagar? Do not be afraid; God has heard the boy crying as he lies there. Lift the boy up and take him by the hand, for I will make him into a great nation.” Then God opened her eyes and she saw a well of water. So she went and filled the skin with water and gave the boy a drink. God was with the boy as he grew up” –Genesis 21: 17-20, NIV.

In closing, there are many lessons we can learn from both women.

One: We don’t have to help God out. When he promises you something, wait on Him; His timing is perfect. We need to hold on to what God has promised us.

Two: We might feel forgotten or abandoned and wonder how we will make it in that new season of raising a child, starting a new career, or leaving that tricky situation. Remember, God has not forgotten you! He has a promise for you, too. He is El Roi, the God who Sees, and will meet you exactly where you are.

If you’re reading this and somehow you still think that God doesn’t have a promise for you, well, He does. The promise that He has for you is eternal life. The bible says in John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life”. That is the ultimate promise, and it doesn’t look different to everyone. It is the same for anyone who believes and receives it. Will you receive the promise of everlasting life today?

Even If.

April 26, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

“Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego replied, “O Nebuchadnezzar, we do not need to defend ourselves before you. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God whom we serve is able to save us. He will rescue us from your power, Your Majesty. But even if he doesn’t, we want to make it clear to you, Your Majesty, that we will never serve your gods or worship the gold statue you have set up.” –Daniel 3:16-18.

There is a hymn most Christians would instantly recognize; moreover, whose hearts would joyously and with complete abandon declare. I have decided to follow Jesus; No turning back, no turning back. Tho’ none go with me, I still will follow, no turning back, no turning back. Some say this familiar hymn was composed in 1959 by hymn editor William Jensen Reynolds using what is said to be the last words of a Christian convert of the mid-18th century as he and his family were being martyred for their faith. Other sources say these final words of the martyr, Nokseng, of the Garo tribe in Assam, India, a tribe looked upon as bloodthirsty savages, were turned into a hymn written by the Indian missionary Sadhu Sundar Singh.

Whoever you may credit, this most sincere declaration is indelibly etched on our hearts. No question, each devout word took flight from Nokseng’s lips. This man was so in love with Jesus, so thoroughly convinced that Jesus is who He claimed to be and will do all He claimed He would do, that not even death, his own, nor that of his two sons and beloved wife, would deter him from turning his back on Jesus.

When Nokseng said there’d be no turning back, he meant it.

I pray the same can be said of you and me, beloved.

Mirroring Nokseng’s heart and flintlike faith, the Apostle Paul echoed his own fixed determination never to turn away from Jesus approximately 15 centuries later: “Yet every advantage that I had gained I considered lost for Christ’s sake. Yes, and I look upon everything as loss compared with the overwhelming gain of knowing Jesus Christ my Lord. For his sake I did in actual fact suffer the loss of everything, but I considered it useless rubbish compared with being able to win Christ. For now my place is in him, and I am not dependent upon any of the self-achieved righteousness of the Law. God has given me that genuine righteousness which comes from faith in Christ. How changed are my ambitions! Now I long to know Christ and the power shown by his resurrection: now I long to share his sufferings, even to die as he died, so that I may perhaps attain as he did, the resurrection from the dead” –Philippians 3:8.

If you have decided to follow Jesus, I pray the height and depth of their words and determined following burn as white-hot in your own heart, no turning back.

You may ask, “What do this song and the apostles’ words have to do with today’s Scripture verse?”

To which I’ll reply, “Everything.”

Much like the martyrs Nokseng and the Apostle Paul, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego each made a firm decision never to turn away from following Jesus. “If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God whom we serve is able to save us. He will rescue us from your power, Your Majesty. But even if he doesn’t, we want to make it clear to you, Your Majesty, that we will never serve your gods or worship the gold statue you have set up” –Daniel 3:16-17.

Long before the moment came when each would face the very real threat of dying for Jesus, each had long before determined in their heart that his life was no longer his own. “Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone wishes to follow Me [as My disciple], he must deny himself [set aside selfish interests], and take up his cross [expressing a willingness to endure whatever may come] and follow Me [believing in Me, conforming to My example in living and, if need be, suffering or perhaps dying because of faith in Me]” –Matthew 16:24 Amp.

How blessed are you, dear Christian, to follow the One, True God, Jesus, who does not ask of His disciples something He is unwilling to do. How blessed we are that our Jesus goes before us in all things pertaining to faith and commitment to God, and by modeling how it is done, Jesus, our Greatest example, was willing to lay down His life in obedience to the Father’s will. “No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father” –John 10:18.

Resurrection Sunday is just an arm’s length behind us.

Yet, the same “ever-before-us” decision asked and answered by those who have given up their lives for Jesus remains. “Brothers and sisters, together follow my example and observe those who live by the pattern we gave you. For there are many, of whom I have often told you, and now tell you even with tears, who live as enemies of the cross of Christ [rejecting and opposing His way of salvation]” –Philippians 3:17-18

As we plainly witnessed here today, those who claimed they followed Jesus did, in fact, do just that—even unto death.

Beloved, recognizing our life is a living sacrifice, we too must decide to follow Jesus’s ultimate example of obedience and love for the Father, knowing with unwavering certitude that, no matter what happens, believing what awaited Jesus on the morning of the third day awaits us as well. “Could it be any clearer? Our old way of life was nailed to the cross with Christ, a decisive end to that sin-miserable life—no longer captive to sin’s demands! What we believe is this: If we get included in Christ’s sin-conquering death, we also get included in his life-saving resurrection. We know that when Jesus was raised from the dead it was a signal of the end of death-as-the-end. Never again will death have the last word. When Jesus died, he took sin down with him, but alive he brings God down to us. From now on, think of it this way: Sin speaks a dead language that means nothing to you; God speaks your mother tongue, and you hang on every word. You are dead to sin and alive to God. That’s what Jesus did” —Romans 6:6-11.

So, new friend, have you decided to follow Jesus? No turning back? I’m praying you will. “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die” –John 11:25-26.

Reflections of Mephibosheth.

April 12, 2025 /

MaryEllen Montville

“The king then asked him, “Is anyone still alive from Saul’s family? If so, I want to show God’s kindness to them.” –2 Samuel 9:3.

You, child of God, are a type of Mephibosheth—as am I. Made lame by one man’s sin. We were born sinners, unable to save ourselves. “The first man Adam became a living soul; the last Adam became a life-giving Spirit.” –1 Corinthians 15:45. Yet, for those who know Jesus as their Lord and Savior, like Mephibosheth, we’ve been made whole; free to walk in fellowship with God again—because of Jesus.

As we prepare our hearts to celebrate Resurrection Sunday, I pray we call to mind the cost our Lord willingly paid for our sins and those of the whole world—His guiltless Life in exchange for our scarlet sin-stained lives. “He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.” –1 John 2:2.

Apart from God’s unplumbed mercy, which offers to restore what we lost at the hands of Adam and Eve, guardians who dropped us and then hid in misplaced fear from God who, from eternity past, has wanted nothing more than to shower us with His love and bless us with every good thing, we are prisoners of Lo-debar, that hope-less place of long-dead dreams and even deader lives.

Like Mephibosheth, the hope-less are shackled to Lo-debar by the weighty chains that bind all who are Light-starved to dank, dark prisons of shame, guilt, and pride. Like him, they hid in fear, cowering in barren isolation in Lo-debar, a place that, when mentioned anywhere but there, is instantly associated with “the place where nothing thrives and the near-dead dog trembless cowering in constant fear of reprisal from their master’s tempestuous wrath.

Many of us knew Lo-debar; maybe we spent chunks of our childhood or some portion of our adult life there. Perhaps it was a family place, our neighborhood, or our town? Everyone you knew lived in Lo-debar, and those you came across who didn’t seem as unrelatable and alien to you as you imagined living in a foreign country might be. “In those days you were living apart from Christ. You were excluded from citizenship among the people of Israel, and you did not know the covenant promises God had made to them. You lived in this world without God and without hope” –Ephesians 2:12.

I was made lame in Lo-debar by some version or another of shame and fear. I was crippled by depression and low self-esteem, made even lower by my own sin-full life choices.

I could say I was dropped shortly after having been born and not be wrong.

It’s fair to say all parties involved, me and them, contributed to my lameness; as far back as I can remember, all I ever knew was Lo-debar. That is why I can assure you with the confidence born only from one possessing firsthand experience that if not for Jesus, I can say with absolute certainty I’d never have changed addresses. Maybe you’d be the one God would have sent to minister to me? For sure, I didn’t have what it takes to walk out of Lo-debar on my own—being born lame, none of us did or do. “He saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit” –Titus 3:5.

Like Mephibaseph, I’d never have known the blessing of being invited to eat at the King’s table or having “tasted and seen” such Goodness while living so-called, in Lo-debar; such unimaginable joy and unplumed hope does not exist there.

Only God can cause a man to shed his skin so completely that he is no longer recognizable even to himself. “I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me” –Galatians 2:20.

There’s a Hebrew concept known as Chesed; it has a multifaceted meaning. It speaks of lovingkindness, mercy, steadfast love, and loyalty. Sound familiar, child of God?

Chased is what David showed Mephibosheth.

Rather than killing anyone who may potentially lay claim to the throne, as was the custom when a new king was crowned, David, Jesus’ placeholder, instead shows Mephibosheth, God’s own mercy and loving-kindness.

For one who had been living in fear of the day the new King might catch wind that he was alive in Lo-debar, being shown such unimaginable mercy came right out of left field! Mephibosheth thought that if the day ever came when King David found him out, surely David would exact his revenge—ending his life, not blessing it! “Don’t be afraid!” David said. “I intend to show kindness to you because of my promise to your father, Jonathan. I will give you all the property that once belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will eat here with me at the king’s table!” –2 Samuel 9:7.

How like Mephibosheth those of us who lived in Lo-debar were once.Crippled by shame and fear of being found by God. Accustomed to living small and hidden in a world where sin, shame, and the knowledge, so-called, of what we believe we deserve would, if we’re careful, hunt us down and destroy us. Living misguided and so far from the Truth that God loves us and desires an intimate “sit at the King’s table” relationship with us. A “I will restore all you’ve missed out on while foolishly hiding from what you thought would be My wrath” kind of Love.

From the beginning, beloved, God created you to have intimate fellowship with Him. He has always wanted you to be with Him, not languishing in Lo-debar. It never even occurred to Him that one of His children would live in a place that, when mentioned, is automatically associated with “the place where nothing thrives, where the near-dead dog trembles, cowering in constant fear of their master’s tempestuous wrath.”

God who loves you. He gave His only Son, Jesus, to die in your place. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” –John 3:16. He didn’t send Jesus to kill you but to offer you a new life now and for all time, along with the sure knowledge that the crumbling kingdom of this world, Lo-debar, has lost its power over you.

Trust in Jesus, the One God sent to seek you out and save you. “For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him” –John 3:17. Hear the Father’s heart toward you, Mephibosheth.

Dear child, don’t be afraid. If you feel Me knocking on the door of your heart right now, trust that My Holy Spirit is doing My will; if you say yes to My invitation to be one with Me, you will eat at My table forevermore. I will not deceive you. In this world, you will still suffer hardships, but take heart, I will be with you, and I assure you that soon, and very soon, you will suffer lameness no more. “And Mephibosheth, who was crippled in both feet, lived in Jerusalem and ate regularly at the king’s table.” –2 Samuel 9:13.

“Hallelujah! For our Lord God Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear.” (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.) Then the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!” And he added, “These are the true words of God.” –Revelation 19:7-9

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